Sometimes you come to the realization that breaking up is a good thing.
This time I was the one she broke up with - which really was tough for me.
I have never had someone discard me before - and I couldn't take it. Freaked out... developed detachement issues
Let me tell ya - the emotional rollercoaster I just experienced in the last 2 weeks was like no other.
Anyhow - we talked again today - and really, it was nice to know that we now see that we were not made for each other to be in a relationship with. That emotional "need" to be with her is gone... which is a releif.
We started off hot and intense... and after the oral and physical sex was put on hold - the true incompatibilities of our personalities came to light...
Some people - you can have sex with... and some you can be in a relationship with. You can't force the sexual people into a relationship...
lesson learned - to bad I couldn't have learned it earlier in life - it would have been less painful.
This time I was the one she broke up with - which really was tough for me.
I have never had someone discard me before - and I couldn't take it. Freaked out... developed detachement issues
Let me tell ya - the emotional rollercoaster I just experienced in the last 2 weeks was like no other.
Anyhow - we talked again today - and really, it was nice to know that we now see that we were not made for each other to be in a relationship with. That emotional "need" to be with her is gone... which is a releif.
We started off hot and intense... and after the oral and physical sex was put on hold - the true incompatibilities of our personalities came to light...
Some people - you can have sex with... and some you can be in a relationship with. You can't force the sexual people into a relationship...
lesson learned - to bad I couldn't have learned it earlier in life - it would have been less painful.
imogen1:
So glad to hear it. Just wait a couple more weeks and I'm sure you wont even think about it at all.