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dwestfan13

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Nov 8, 2018
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I don't do blogging.

That's a strange start to a blog post, I know, but it's true. I can count on one hand the number of times I've ever made what you could consider a 'blog post'. I don't often have things on my mind that I think are important enough to bother calling out, I usually just shrug it off and move on. However, I've been struggling with this ever since I became a member here:

Commenting on pictures and photosets is extremely difficult.

I don't mean the process by which a comment is submitted, that part is obviously simple. I mean it's a struggle to phrase a comment in such a way that it doesn't seem aggressively creepy or super objectifying. It's a hard balance, considering the subject matter at hand. I want to express my appreciation for the image(s) in question but I don't want it to just boil down to an objectification like 'nice tits!' or something similar that. I'm also not well-versed enough in the practice of photography to be able to identify a particularly well-shot picture to comment from that perspective.

Maybe I'm overthinking this...

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dwestfan13:
I suppose saying something is better than nothing.  I typically just defaulted to a 'like' if I couldn't think of something that didn't sound odd haha
Nov 9, 2018
bellajean:
It's good that you put thought into this. Personally I am happy with positive comments on my body on my SG photosets, but I cannot speak for any one else. I often think about complimenting the model and the photographer on their choice of style, setting, outfit, lighting, creativity, poses, uniqueness ! If you're worried about seeming creepy, perhaps focus on complimenting their imagination and individuality 🖤🖤🖤🖤
Mar 10, 2021

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