Gotta fight with BOA again today despite getting a letter from Equifax & the attorney. I'm so tired.
I got so sick of my Dad living with us in my childs bedroom running up the utilities and gorging himself on the free food and all his OCD's I just let him have it last night. I was screaming so loud my voice was cracking. I re-hashed how he spent my who life piss as drunk and abusing my mother until she left his ass and then he was never there for me in presence / financially until I was 16 and he needed a drinking buddy. I told him to get the eff outta my house (well, MIL & FIL's house, but still). So of course now he's moping around crying all night again after my step-sis told him to eff-off too. Good times. But it felt sooooooooooo good to get all those years of emotional baggage off my chest.
We will see how today goes. MIL & FIL are buying him a cheap ass computer today and telling him he has to go.
(10:03am) : What a pain in the ass. Been calling people in circles trying to get this last thing fixed... I was mistaken, it's TransUnion causing the stink this time. Everybody has done what they can to get this resolved but they are just being ridiculous. My mortgage company is now sending them documentation showing everything has been settled on this account to hopefully resolve this matter. The new closing date is set for the 26th and the repairs still have to be done!!! Cutting it close AGAIN.
I got so sick of my Dad living with us in my childs bedroom running up the utilities and gorging himself on the free food and all his OCD's I just let him have it last night. I was screaming so loud my voice was cracking. I re-hashed how he spent my who life piss as drunk and abusing my mother until she left his ass and then he was never there for me in presence / financially until I was 16 and he needed a drinking buddy. I told him to get the eff outta my house (well, MIL & FIL's house, but still). So of course now he's moping around crying all night again after my step-sis told him to eff-off too. Good times. But it felt sooooooooooo good to get all those years of emotional baggage off my chest.
We will see how today goes. MIL & FIL are buying him a cheap ass computer today and telling him he has to go.
(10:03am) : What a pain in the ass. Been calling people in circles trying to get this last thing fixed... I was mistaken, it's TransUnion causing the stink this time. Everybody has done what they can to get this resolved but they are just being ridiculous. My mortgage company is now sending them documentation showing everything has been settled on this account to hopefully resolve this matter. The new closing date is set for the 26th and the repairs still have to be done!!! Cutting it close AGAIN.
about two years ago I had to kick my sil an her husband an baby out... good times
hug