Hi sg today I wanted to talk about my breasts and how it was for me to accept them. I've done so much effort to make them look bigger, like putting a sock in the bra or wearing 3D bras that were super expensive.
I felt so bad because my friends had bigger breasts and mine were so small, what made me feel less feminine. In my relationships I always had sex in the dark because I was ashamed thinking that my partner wouldn't be horny and, of course, I wanted to be sexualized... So I had a great desire to put the famous breast implants!
But why did I want to undergo a surgery that maybe it wasn't something I really needed? So I started to ask myself if this was exactly what I wanted or if it was because I wanted to fit in some pattern to please other people and not myself...
My acceptance process took a long time but SG helped me a lot with that. I started following girls with small breasts and OMG! They were wonderful models, not ashamed at all of showing their breasts. That encouraged me a lot, I started seeing myself in a different way. I realized how beautiful my body was and I started adapting myself to it: little by little, I was learning to love my small breasts.
My conclusion is that everybody should listen to their hearts and to what they really want for their lives. If you're undergoing a surgery, do it for yourself and not because someone else says that you'd be more beautiful. Don't rely on others, you are unique!!! Nowadays, I've been discovering that my femininity is not in my body and I'm very grateful to SG for allowing me to be myself and to accept my curves the way they are !!! thank you so much Sg family 🖤
@rambo @missy @jacqueline