Things are slightly looking up for us.
I told John's oldest sister (Amy) about the whole fiasco with Bobby and that we blocked his number because we were tired of his shit. She was really pissed off about the whole situation. She said that Bobby was the same exact way with her and her husband when they had to borrow money from him when they first moved out here and she was waiting on her unemployment from CA. She told me that her new job is going well and she is expecting a huge "bonus" in a few months so her and her husband are going to gift us (not loan) the money we owe to pay Bobby back so he'll shut up. John and I have decided that we're going to put the money on Visa gift cards through our bank since they'll be free. Main reason for this is because we didn't want him blowing it on pot when he's bitching how poor he is. That would be no different than someone loaning us money for bills or something and then we blow it on alcohol.
I told John our family motto should be "Never borrow money from Uncle Bobby."
I went to the doctor's on Tuesday. My OB/GYN recognized me when he walked in the door despite the fact I haven't seen him in almost 5 yrs (I know, bad me). He remembered Lily, her birthday. In fact, she was the first thing he asked about. I had my pap smear done (OW) and had my IUD removed. He recommended that we wait approximately 3 months or until I get my first period before we try to get pregnant. He said since I had my IUD for almost the whole duration, I needed to give my uterus time to build up the lining or else the baby won't have anything to stick to. So it looks like another possible winter baby which we were kind of hoping to avoid for once haha
We decided not to tell anyone in John's family, except Amy (she knows everything), about us trying for another baby because all they would do is give us shit about it. Hell, Bobby already told John we should have aborted the other 3
That's about it for now.
I told John's oldest sister (Amy) about the whole fiasco with Bobby and that we blocked his number because we were tired of his shit. She was really pissed off about the whole situation. She said that Bobby was the same exact way with her and her husband when they had to borrow money from him when they first moved out here and she was waiting on her unemployment from CA. She told me that her new job is going well and she is expecting a huge "bonus" in a few months so her and her husband are going to gift us (not loan) the money we owe to pay Bobby back so he'll shut up. John and I have decided that we're going to put the money on Visa gift cards through our bank since they'll be free. Main reason for this is because we didn't want him blowing it on pot when he's bitching how poor he is. That would be no different than someone loaning us money for bills or something and then we blow it on alcohol.
I told John our family motto should be "Never borrow money from Uncle Bobby."
I went to the doctor's on Tuesday. My OB/GYN recognized me when he walked in the door despite the fact I haven't seen him in almost 5 yrs (I know, bad me). He remembered Lily, her birthday. In fact, she was the first thing he asked about. I had my pap smear done (OW) and had my IUD removed. He recommended that we wait approximately 3 months or until I get my first period before we try to get pregnant. He said since I had my IUD for almost the whole duration, I needed to give my uterus time to build up the lining or else the baby won't have anything to stick to. So it looks like another possible winter baby which we were kind of hoping to avoid for once haha
We decided not to tell anyone in John's family, except Amy (she knows everything), about us trying for another baby because all they would do is give us shit about it. Hell, Bobby already told John we should have aborted the other 3
That's about it for now.
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littlejohn22:
Good luck on conceiving again
littlejohn22:
