dropkickwilly

So my current events have recently changed. If you had read my last entry, you will know that things haven't been going too well with the wife. Well I finally told her that I wanted a divorce two weeks ago. I can't go through life with her in her current state. I wanted to work out our problems, but she never has time according to her. Now this isn't what I need the help on. Last week I was casually contacted by a girl I have known for the last 4 years. Now it had to be professional due to the nature of the relationship( I was a recruiter for the Army, she was joining and 18). Nothing ever happened and we stayed friends. So she casually mentions to me that she had always wanted to jump me, but being married and her recruiter kept her from acting on it. I won't lie and say I never thought about it, actually I thought about it, and I am glad she never said anything. She would have been the only girl I would have thrown the rules out the window for. So we started talking, sending pictures, but when it comes to meeting up and hang out, she flakes on me. I call her out on it and she says she is nervous to see me. So I have no idea how to pull her out of this shell, where she wants to jump all over me, and the next second is too nervous to see me in person. Suggestions? Comments? Questions?