So I recently broke up with my girlfriend. It was a long time coming because it was a (textbook) verbally abusive relationship. What was even scarier was how close the behavior of the abused party described how I'd been acting for the previous year and a half.....and I still didn't break up with her for another year.
But I feel like I'm a stronger person for leaving her, I also feel like I'll be more attentive of possibly ending up in that situation again and am absolutely NEVER putting up with that shit again! It really fucked with my head!
So now I'm single and living with my best friend since childhood. But I have to say, I am not enjoying being single! In college (or maybe just Chico) it wasn't easy to meet decent girls, but at least people were a little open to seeing where things went. But now that I'm older, I feel like girls are a lot more guarded and suspicious of most guys they meet (not to mention the fact that most of the cool, smart, fun girls are engaged or married).
It's just hard to meet anyone, and at first it was easier to try to talk to girls, but now since fewer and fewer of them will talk to me I feel like it's affecting my confidence.....which then makes it even harder! Vicious circle.
But it's not all bad, I'm still doing CrossFit (not sure if I've mentioned that on here before, it's been a while since my last post), and I am absolutely addicted to it! 2 1/2 years of CrossFit, 2 years of Paleo. I haven't lost any weight, but I've become MUCH more fit and lean! Plus I feel so much better all the time (well, not counting the almost constant sore muscles lol)
Loving work, although I want to focus more on the Accounting next year and less on the legal/litigation stuff. Definitely got enough of that this year! Also probably gonna be done with night classes soon, probably just taking Business Law and something else next semester and taking a break for a while.
I was going to get certified as a CPA because most of the requirements had already been completed in my Math Bachelors; but then after one semester they changed the requirements to needing a Masters Degree. So I finally decided that if I ever want to become a CPA later, I can always do that then.
Well, just wanted to give a quick (or more accurately LONG) update. Bye for now!