dorian

I think a lot of the percieved gulf between members and models comes as models are around for longer. After a while you get past just being so excited to be here and to get compliments that you're really really laid back...eventually you start to notice creepiness more. Also, this always happens every once in a while, but especially lately there have been more people joining who think that being on this site gives them licence to be extremely rude...and I don't mean making off color jokes, I mean the people who e-mail SGs asking for sex or the people who write nasty comments on photosets like "prude, show more pussy" and "this girl is just ugly" (and those are actual examples of comments I've seen)

I don't view members as automatically creepy at all...but I am always aware that someone can become creepy or that someone who seems kind of creepy can get gradually worse, and I also always think that people who join SG need to know that they need to be polite and respectful to the girls....otherwise this will become a very unpleasant place to be. Most people here aren't like that, but there are many people who think that if a chick gets naked or is in porn, she doesn't deserve basic respect, or that they can say anything to her. Those people just don't belong here.

I agree, everyone deserves respect. I just think that once someone is a total ass to an SG, or to any other member really, their right to respect goes right down the tubes.