Ok so here's the deal.....If you read this blog i would really appreciate your input! I'm not the type of person who really gives a fuck what everyone else thinks of me or the things I do BUT it would just be nice to hear some of your opinions on my "dilemma"
THE STORY: SO I've been texting this girl back and forth for about three days. She is crazy nice. And she is totally my type. She is also ultra sexy. We instantly struck up a conversation. Basically hit it off reallllly well. So finally, last night I went to her house and met her and hung out with her and a few of her friends. Had a few beers and continued to hit it off somethin fierce. I am very attracted to this girl in every sense of the word. Physically, mentally, even spiritually. We talked about everything and stayed up obnoxiously late considering i had to work at 7AM.
The Dilemma: My mother manages a soil testing facility in a nearby town. Two years ago the girl i hung out with was hired on for some seasonal work. Apparently my mother was told by various co-workers that this chick was fucking out of her mind! My mom isn't one to listen to others opinions either. She likes to make her own inferences BUT low and behold this girl apparently had a "freak out" at work. They were all in the receiving warehouse and my mom walked in. The girl was rocking back and forth in a corner with her head buried in her knees. She immediately had to leave. She told my mother that she was dealing with a lot of heavy things like her drug habit, her boyfriends drug habit, the fact the she was basically living out of her car, and a mental disorder. The other day when i told my mother my plans for the evening she asked what i was doing. I told her i was hanging out with a new friend. I then told her the girls name and my mom was astonished and she told me that i was insane for even talking to this girl.
My question: I am hardcore attracted to this girl. We both agreed that we felt like we've known each other for much longer than a few days. We laughed. We share common interests and outlooks on life. I could tell she was attracted to me. I was definitely attracted to her. But this cloud of gossip from two years ago is looming over my head. I know what i want to do. I want to see where it goes. you win some you loose some. But my question is....what would you guys do if you were in my situation??!?!
I would really enjoy to read your opinions!!
THE STORY: SO I've been texting this girl back and forth for about three days. She is crazy nice. And she is totally my type. She is also ultra sexy. We instantly struck up a conversation. Basically hit it off reallllly well. So finally, last night I went to her house and met her and hung out with her and a few of her friends. Had a few beers and continued to hit it off somethin fierce. I am very attracted to this girl in every sense of the word. Physically, mentally, even spiritually. We talked about everything and stayed up obnoxiously late considering i had to work at 7AM.
The Dilemma: My mother manages a soil testing facility in a nearby town. Two years ago the girl i hung out with was hired on for some seasonal work. Apparently my mother was told by various co-workers that this chick was fucking out of her mind! My mom isn't one to listen to others opinions either. She likes to make her own inferences BUT low and behold this girl apparently had a "freak out" at work. They were all in the receiving warehouse and my mom walked in. The girl was rocking back and forth in a corner with her head buried in her knees. She immediately had to leave. She told my mother that she was dealing with a lot of heavy things like her drug habit, her boyfriends drug habit, the fact the she was basically living out of her car, and a mental disorder. The other day when i told my mother my plans for the evening she asked what i was doing. I told her i was hanging out with a new friend. I then told her the girls name and my mom was astonished and she told me that i was insane for even talking to this girl.
My question: I am hardcore attracted to this girl. We both agreed that we felt like we've known each other for much longer than a few days. We laughed. We share common interests and outlooks on life. I could tell she was attracted to me. I was definitely attracted to her. But this cloud of gossip from two years ago is looming over my head. I know what i want to do. I want to see where it goes. you win some you loose some. But my question is....what would you guys do if you were in my situation??!?!
I would really enjoy to read your opinions!!
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i hope this goes well.