Hello SGland! ❤
At first I did not intend to write homework on this topic, but I began to think about it and decided to share my thoughts.
The ingredients of my recipe are very simple, but the secret of happy love is that each of them is equally important.
To begin with, I want to say, there is love, but there is a "fall in love." These concepts often confuse among themselves
Directly "love" is a great deep feeling that will last a lifetime. Not every person is given the chance to experience it. (not to be confused with the habit).
And there is a "fall in love", which is often mistaken for love.
I am a romantic and have repeatedly felt a sense of love. It's not as serious as love and it's pretty easy to treat. (I hope you understand what I'm trying to say and the meaning will not be lost when translating).
So, fall in love is the first ingredient in our recipe.
Ingredient № 2. Common interests. There must be a lot in common. I have been convinced many times that if there is very little in common and are interested in different things, nothing good can happen. Someday love will end and just become boring. It's really terrible. When at some point you understand that there is simply nothing to talk about.
Ingredient No. 3.
Trust. You need to trust, be completely confident in the person who is next to you, because this is the closest person in life! First of all, a friend. There should not be a place of shyness or even worse - jealousy. There should be only honesty and openness. Speak. Do not be afraid to say if you do not like something. Otherwise it will accumulate and someday there will be bad consequences.
Ingredient No. 4.
Support. Every great man had support. Just someone close to him, he helps to become stronger. Supports in difficult moments. Does not cease to believe in you, even when your hands go down. He does not condemn. He just is next to you.
Ingredient No. 5.
We need to share not only bad, but also good. To give love is as pleasant as getting. But do it not because we want to get something in return, but simply because we have it. Here I mean attention, kind words, care and warmth.
P.S. I re-read what I wrote above and made sure, I really love SG world! ❤❤❤ Here there are all 5 of my ingredients:))
At first I did not intend to write homework on this topic, but I began to think about it and decided to share my thoughts.
The ingredients of my recipe are very simple, but the secret of happy love is that each of them is equally important.
To begin with, I want to say, there is love, but there is a "fall in love." These concepts often confuse among themselves
Directly "love" is a great deep feeling that will last a lifetime. Not every person is given the chance to experience it. (not to be confused with the habit).
And there is a "fall in love", which is often mistaken for love.
I am a romantic and have repeatedly felt a sense of love. It's not as serious as love and it's pretty easy to treat. (I hope you understand what I'm trying to say and the meaning will not be lost when translating).
So, fall in love is the first ingredient in our recipe.
Ingredient № 2. Common interests. There must be a lot in common. I have been convinced many times that if there is very little in common and are interested in different things, nothing good can happen. Someday love will end and just become boring. It's really terrible. When at some point you understand that there is simply nothing to talk about.
Ingredient No. 3.
Trust. You need to trust, be completely confident in the person who is next to you, because this is the closest person in life! First of all, a friend. There should not be a place of shyness or even worse - jealousy. There should be only honesty and openness. Speak. Do not be afraid to say if you do not like something. Otherwise it will accumulate and someday there will be bad consequences.
Ingredient No. 4.
Support. Every great man had support. Just someone close to him, he helps to become stronger. Supports in difficult moments. Does not cease to believe in you, even when your hands go down. He does not condemn. He just is next to you.
Ingredient No. 5.
We need to share not only bad, but also good. To give love is as pleasant as getting. But do it not because we want to get something in return, but simply because we have it. Here I mean attention, kind words, care and warmth.
P.S. I re-read what I wrote above and made sure, I really love SG world! ❤❤❤ Here there are all 5 of my ingredients:))
Once I learned about him and fell in love, here I met many amazing people with the same interests as me! I can communicate with them in different groups, I share my thoughts and trust my secrets. Not being shy of what I am, girls want to look good in their sets and they can remain themselves. They do not need to meet stupid standards, such as "clean skin" or "a certain amount of centimeters" in different places. Still here I get a lot of love and support and am very glad that I can share this in return! 💝💝
Thank you for being there 💋
Thank you for being there 💋
Thanks @missy @rambo for interesting homework.
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tm3363:
...and last, but not least (which you partially covered in your post) - communication. Sadly, I think all of my relationships failed (except for 1, which is a long, sad story) due to lack of proper communication between both of us. Keep everything open "on the table" and don't be afraid to be honest. This was a good read. :)
brokenvegetable:
I have very different thoughts on this, however I’m not sure I want to post them here in your comment section. But I do believe support is very important and in a relationship there has to be one person that supports more than the other. You can’t have to people that support each other equally as it becomes a bit of a nullifier. The other person in the relationship is the one that returns the support in rechargeable way.