Been a while since my last posting. My now ex-GF hated this site, and forbid my coming here.
We were together for a year, wasn't a bad year, but by the end of it, I wasn't the same person as I was at the beginning due to all the little changes she forced.
Now, freshly single, I'm almost sad to say it feels great. I didn't actually think about what all had changed as we were together, but as the relationship went on, we started to fight more and more often, and nearly broke up over a month ago. She prevented the break-up and actually it did get better for a while, but, since the near-break, my heart wasn't in it anymore, and although we were no longer mad all the time, it felt muted or dull. The final breaking point was when she gave one last ultimatum that I get rid of my remaining Maxim magazines or she'll withhold sex. To which I responded that if my having a magazine was cause for her withholding, then we've fallen too far, and she can go.
Not that I wanted to keep the magazines, I've read them all already, but, when I first met her, I had over 100, now, this final push was to let go of the final 5 magazines, as I'd already gotten rid of the others.
Onto happier news, due to my break-up, my little sister out in Edmonton, Alberta invited me to come out for a week or so, stating the best relationship rebound is with a mountain. A relationship with a mountain is always rock solid! I love my little sister, she's crazy in the best way, and my brother in law is also amazing.
So, now I'm planning a trip west once I figure out the best 2 weeks or so to take off. That will be sometime in October, but, I've also friends in Ottawa that will be coming down here so we can hit up Canadas Wonderland Halloween Haunt again this year. So, I'll have to figure out which weekend I'm hanging out with old friends, and when I can skip town and head west to meet new ones.
If anyone has any suggestions for sites/sounds experiences I need to try, jump in!!
We were together for a year, wasn't a bad year, but by the end of it, I wasn't the same person as I was at the beginning due to all the little changes she forced.
Now, freshly single, I'm almost sad to say it feels great. I didn't actually think about what all had changed as we were together, but as the relationship went on, we started to fight more and more often, and nearly broke up over a month ago. She prevented the break-up and actually it did get better for a while, but, since the near-break, my heart wasn't in it anymore, and although we were no longer mad all the time, it felt muted or dull. The final breaking point was when she gave one last ultimatum that I get rid of my remaining Maxim magazines or she'll withhold sex. To which I responded that if my having a magazine was cause for her withholding, then we've fallen too far, and she can go.
Not that I wanted to keep the magazines, I've read them all already, but, when I first met her, I had over 100, now, this final push was to let go of the final 5 magazines, as I'd already gotten rid of the others.
Onto happier news, due to my break-up, my little sister out in Edmonton, Alberta invited me to come out for a week or so, stating the best relationship rebound is with a mountain. A relationship with a mountain is always rock solid! I love my little sister, she's crazy in the best way, and my brother in law is also amazing.
So, now I'm planning a trip west once I figure out the best 2 weeks or so to take off. That will be sometime in October, but, I've also friends in Ottawa that will be coming down here so we can hit up Canadas Wonderland Halloween Haunt again this year. So, I'll have to figure out which weekend I'm hanging out with old friends, and when I can skip town and head west to meet new ones.
If anyone has any suggestions for sites/sounds experiences I need to try, jump in!!