Success!!!
She's talking to me again!!! And is willing to see me!!! And all I need to do is help her to like me again and rebuild her trust in me!
Shouldn't be too hard, since we basically hit it off right away, I'm pretty confident she'll like me very soon. The trust will be more of a problem, since she sees my so-called 'friend' more often. And he's been her friend longer, and is interested in her, and is the whole reason she hates me now.
I still don't understand why he felt the need to tell her, as it happened a week ago, and nothing came of it, and so much has changed between the time I made the comment and the time she heard about it. The comment, at the time wasn't made seriously, but, taken out of context was terrible. But, by the time this guy tells her, the comment wasn't even valid, and yet was even more devastating because he used it to twist her view of me...
Oh well, she still hates me, but I doubt it will be for long, and I'm thrilled that she's even willing to see me... I fell pretty hard for her, not even sure how it happened. One day I'm being my average self, the nxt day, I can't stop thinking about her, if she invites me out, i drop everything and go. Which, is crazy of course, as she lives a good hours drive away, and that's doing 20% more than the posted speed limits the whole way...
But, I digress. This weekend has been quite the emotional roller coaster for me, but at least I'm able to get the feelings out rather than hoarding them all inside. I'm able to more open, not sure if that's a result of being with someone, losing someone, or just age/experience and personal growth.
She's talking to me again!!! And is willing to see me!!! And all I need to do is help her to like me again and rebuild her trust in me!
Shouldn't be too hard, since we basically hit it off right away, I'm pretty confident she'll like me very soon. The trust will be more of a problem, since she sees my so-called 'friend' more often. And he's been her friend longer, and is interested in her, and is the whole reason she hates me now.
I still don't understand why he felt the need to tell her, as it happened a week ago, and nothing came of it, and so much has changed between the time I made the comment and the time she heard about it. The comment, at the time wasn't made seriously, but, taken out of context was terrible. But, by the time this guy tells her, the comment wasn't even valid, and yet was even more devastating because he used it to twist her view of me...
Oh well, she still hates me, but I doubt it will be for long, and I'm thrilled that she's even willing to see me... I fell pretty hard for her, not even sure how it happened. One day I'm being my average self, the nxt day, I can't stop thinking about her, if she invites me out, i drop everything and go. Which, is crazy of course, as she lives a good hours drive away, and that's doing 20% more than the posted speed limits the whole way...
But, I digress. This weekend has been quite the emotional roller coaster for me, but at least I'm able to get the feelings out rather than hoarding them all inside. I'm able to more open, not sure if that's a result of being with someone, losing someone, or just age/experience and personal growth.