So after Four days of talking we are back together and I think she understands how hurt I was with what she did. This was a big bump in the road but I am really happy that we worked it out. For myself, this was a big step for me. When stuff like this happens I am quick to put up walls and shield myself from any more pain. I would like to thank my friend Aambr for the late night talks and to Meldarko and Widow your advice really helped out, thanks for helping me maintain a cool head through all of this 