Dear Jessi,
Listen,
We need to talk and since you are busy I am going to send this to you instead,
I'm getting tired of this, you are nice to me when it convient to you, but not when it is unso. Tonight when I called I am assuming you were on a date with a boy which is ok. I have no dominion in your life any more save that as a friend.
That being said there are certian requirements to being friends, mainly that of being courtious and nice which you have failed to do time and time again. Example being this evening. When I called you were stand offish and bluntly rude. Now I understand my timing may have been inappropriate but that does not save you from the basic nessessaties of being civil to someone you call a friend. I have never once been rude to you simply because I have had someone over and it was a bad time. I may have said, sorry this is a bad time but never yeah what do you want then basically began an attitude.
I am getting tired of being a friend of convience, to fill your time when you are bored and need someone to talk to. I am also getting sick of you getting mad at me when you have a problem and require someone to lash out to. yesterday when we took the ferret to the vet, you had no right, none at all to get mad at me for your mistakes. I have taken care of -your- ferret for you as a favor to you, to help take some of the burden off but to get mad at me because you can't afford him is unfair and uncalled for. I am getting sick of being your doormat and your verbal sparring partner. If you want to be friends GREAT! I do care about you still, AS A FRIEND, but as such I no longer have any obligation to be treated unfairly or rudely.
This will make you mad, I'm sure you are thinking up things to attack me back as you read this and justify your actions as something I did to participate this. You have your right to feel how you will but understand that I will not continue to be a mat to your bad moods and such. I know iN the past i have had them to you but i have never played the convience games with you EVER. Now if you want to do that to me, well, we may have to consider not talking any more because I refuse to deal with it any more.
Now, if you want to talk about this, Reasonably, I am willing to listen, if you come over yelling how unfair I am for this, then be ready to be asked to leave. I believe I am justified in this and I am justified in feeling upset because I thought we had a good friendship and your actions appear to put that into question. I really do want to be your friend but I would like you to put effort into it being such.
Anyways, I have said all I need to, There is nothing more to say on this, however, please note I am serious, I am perfectly capable of exsisting with out you, I would like not to , but I will if i have to. I -will- not lose any more sleep over your out bursts and your rude actions, as of seven days I will not even have to see you any more if we don't want to but once again I -do not- want it to come to that.
Sincerely,
Adrian
Listen,
We need to talk and since you are busy I am going to send this to you instead,
I'm getting tired of this, you are nice to me when it convient to you, but not when it is unso. Tonight when I called I am assuming you were on a date with a boy which is ok. I have no dominion in your life any more save that as a friend.
That being said there are certian requirements to being friends, mainly that of being courtious and nice which you have failed to do time and time again. Example being this evening. When I called you were stand offish and bluntly rude. Now I understand my timing may have been inappropriate but that does not save you from the basic nessessaties of being civil to someone you call a friend. I have never once been rude to you simply because I have had someone over and it was a bad time. I may have said, sorry this is a bad time but never yeah what do you want then basically began an attitude.
I am getting tired of being a friend of convience, to fill your time when you are bored and need someone to talk to. I am also getting sick of you getting mad at me when you have a problem and require someone to lash out to. yesterday when we took the ferret to the vet, you had no right, none at all to get mad at me for your mistakes. I have taken care of -your- ferret for you as a favor to you, to help take some of the burden off but to get mad at me because you can't afford him is unfair and uncalled for. I am getting sick of being your doormat and your verbal sparring partner. If you want to be friends GREAT! I do care about you still, AS A FRIEND, but as such I no longer have any obligation to be treated unfairly or rudely.
This will make you mad, I'm sure you are thinking up things to attack me back as you read this and justify your actions as something I did to participate this. You have your right to feel how you will but understand that I will not continue to be a mat to your bad moods and such. I know iN the past i have had them to you but i have never played the convience games with you EVER. Now if you want to do that to me, well, we may have to consider not talking any more because I refuse to deal with it any more.
Now, if you want to talk about this, Reasonably, I am willing to listen, if you come over yelling how unfair I am for this, then be ready to be asked to leave. I believe I am justified in this and I am justified in feeling upset because I thought we had a good friendship and your actions appear to put that into question. I really do want to be your friend but I would like you to put effort into it being such.
Anyways, I have said all I need to, There is nothing more to say on this, however, please note I am serious, I am perfectly capable of exsisting with out you, I would like not to , but I will if i have to. I -will- not lose any more sleep over your out bursts and your rude actions, as of seven days I will not even have to see you any more if we don't want to but once again I -do not- want it to come to that.
Sincerely,
Adrian
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rosalyn:
So what's the decision - send or no? I kind of hope you do... it will make things messier, but honesty and saying what you're thinking is always the best way... otherwise you'll go insane and kill or maim her and go to jail and then who would I eat durian with? 
diem:
I didn't send it but I talked to her about it over the phone. I don't think this will last much longer one way or another. I don't think it is a good idea us being friend, it is apparently not working very well at all