a little more than a year ago i met the woman i am going to spend the rest of my life with. i have no doubt of that.
it was midnight, and i was fucking around on the internet. i jumped on craigslist casual encounters cause sex is pretty much ALWAYS on my mind and was horribly disappointed cause everything looked fake (by the way about 4 or 5 years ago there were no where near as many posts on CL but i would say that 80-90% of them were real). So i was horribly disappointed and was about to give up and go to bed when i saw a very simply titled post. it said "It sucks" i opened it and it continued its message to say "to sleep alone"
my reply was simple, "i know exactly what you mean" and of course i included a picture of myself (just in case this one was real). i told myself i was going to wait five minutes for a response and then go to bed. it was a monday after all and i had to be up for work in six hours. well, it didn't take even the five minutes i had allotted for the response. it came back almost immediately. i forget what the response was but it was accompanied by a picture of the most beautiful woman i had ever (and still have) ever seen.
we talked back and forth for two hours about ourselves, what we were looking for and what we expected. I was almost ready to give up and go to bed because i was beginning to think i was just the target of some prank (after all i had played the same type of joke before) but i sent one last email asking if she wanted to come spend the night and gave her my address. the response came back. "be there in ten minutes"
so at that point i started waiting. i went to lay down on the couch, was she really coming over, was she even real. this beautiful woman who i would have been afraid to talk to in real life was (theoretically) on her way over to my house to spend the night. sex was not asked for or expected. and i was half convinced that she was never going to come, that she was some 45 year old over weight balding man named paul sitting at his computer one hand on the mouse and the other, well....you know.
then i heard a car pull up and i went to the window. sure enough here was a woman who was getting out of a car and heading towards my house. So i opened the door and she walked in. we both stood there for a minute just giggling. i guess neither of us believed that the other one was gonna be real. she was even more beautiful in person than she was in her photo.
we retired to the bedroom and changed into our pj's and laid down to go to sleep. at that point i didn't know i was gonna spend the rest of my life with her. but she spent the night and it was the best night of sleep i had gotten in a long time.
the next morning she was very sheepish, we parted ways, she went home and we began emailing. she spent another night two days later and we had our first date that friday.
that woman is kas and i love her more than i ever thought it was possible to love another person. happy anniversary baby.
it was midnight, and i was fucking around on the internet. i jumped on craigslist casual encounters cause sex is pretty much ALWAYS on my mind and was horribly disappointed cause everything looked fake (by the way about 4 or 5 years ago there were no where near as many posts on CL but i would say that 80-90% of them were real). So i was horribly disappointed and was about to give up and go to bed when i saw a very simply titled post. it said "It sucks" i opened it and it continued its message to say "to sleep alone"
my reply was simple, "i know exactly what you mean" and of course i included a picture of myself (just in case this one was real). i told myself i was going to wait five minutes for a response and then go to bed. it was a monday after all and i had to be up for work in six hours. well, it didn't take even the five minutes i had allotted for the response. it came back almost immediately. i forget what the response was but it was accompanied by a picture of the most beautiful woman i had ever (and still have) ever seen.
we talked back and forth for two hours about ourselves, what we were looking for and what we expected. I was almost ready to give up and go to bed because i was beginning to think i was just the target of some prank (after all i had played the same type of joke before) but i sent one last email asking if she wanted to come spend the night and gave her my address. the response came back. "be there in ten minutes"
so at that point i started waiting. i went to lay down on the couch, was she really coming over, was she even real. this beautiful woman who i would have been afraid to talk to in real life was (theoretically) on her way over to my house to spend the night. sex was not asked for or expected. and i was half convinced that she was never going to come, that she was some 45 year old over weight balding man named paul sitting at his computer one hand on the mouse and the other, well....you know.
then i heard a car pull up and i went to the window. sure enough here was a woman who was getting out of a car and heading towards my house. So i opened the door and she walked in. we both stood there for a minute just giggling. i guess neither of us believed that the other one was gonna be real. she was even more beautiful in person than she was in her photo.
we retired to the bedroom and changed into our pj's and laid down to go to sleep. at that point i didn't know i was gonna spend the rest of my life with her. but she spent the night and it was the best night of sleep i had gotten in a long time.
the next morning she was very sheepish, we parted ways, she went home and we began emailing. she spent another night two days later and we had our first date that friday.
that woman is kas and i love her more than i ever thought it was possible to love another person. happy anniversary baby.
VIEW 6 of 6 COMMENTS
elicit77:
You know the 45 year old, over weight and balding guy is probably playing World of War Craft with his other hand. I mean, what else would one do with their hands at a computer besides that! 
wsoxfan:
How have you been? I haven't heard from you in a while.