I'm torn about this.
Out of curiosity, what is everyone's stance on one night stands or fucking around.
I myself can't bring myself to just have sex with someone (even if i'm physically interested and super horny...) but I never do anything about it.
I can't flirt. Lol. I'm just so awkward about it.
Believe it or not, I don't get hit on very often.
And when I do, I don't ever realize I'm being hit on till a friend tells me or they're being flat out pushy.
Anyways, I don't judge.
What you do is your business. Besides, who doesn't like sex?
btflday777:
This not an easy question and I don't think there is a direct answer. It all depends. I personally like to know the other person a bit better, I want to make sure that there isn't any situation that either me or the other person will regret. Often people are taken up by emotions, but that doesn't mean to stop thinking about consequences. Flirting is good, but at the same time giving mixed signals about your intentions can be tough to handle and will hurt the feelings of the other person if you change your mind just before it gets "hot". I would say, do what feels right in the moment and think about your believes and principles ahead of time. Just as important is to think about the emotions you personally will have the day after, if you shouldn't ever see the other person again. Hope this helps a little.
deliriumgrey:
@BTFLDAY777 it did. Thank you.