The last few days have been interesting.
On Friday night I think that I may have flirted with a Girl. I was at Bullmoose records, my favorite music store. The lady that was helping me was really sweet and we just kinda clicked I guess. We talked for a bit, I got her E-mail address. I didn't ask for it, she offered it and I accepted. I kinda felt bad about it; I told this lady that I had a Girlfriend and everything so I wasn't hiding anything. I just felt odd that I didn't tell my Girlfriend about it. I know that she wouldn't we happy about it.
On Saturday, me and My Girlfriend had Breakfast with my folks. We went to Cole road caf, I love that place. It was a really nice Breakfast; my brother even paid for it, and let's face it there's nothing like a free meal. After Breakfast we went shopping a bit and went to the Flea market in Saco that I use to workout. The shipping was pretty ok. Once the shopping was done I took my girlfriend to a Bird Sanctuary, she liked it there. We went out on the rocks that were in the ocean. The Tide was coming in so we were getting splashed. It was fun. Later that night we went to a double feature full in, we saw we now pronounce you chuck and Larry and the new Bourne movie. Both movies were pretty good, nothing amazing but good. During the first movie I got a calling informing me that my grandmother was taking to the hospital. We fell and couldn't get up. Well at the hospital we found a growth in one of her lungs and they don't know what it is, but there's been talk of it being cancer.
For this point on, I bitch about my Girlfriend feel free to skip it if you wish.
On Sunday, we went to Visit my Grandmother in the hospital in Sanford. The first went well, I guess. She wasn't looking so good. She looked really tired and her hands and arms were bruised up. After the visit we were going to go swimming at a nearby lake, which I was kinda special to me. I had some problems finding it but we did get there. My girlfriend seemed annoyed with the fact we had to pay $5 to get in. it was down fell from there. She complained so much that we didn't even go swimming.
She complained about
1) having to pay to get in
2) there the restrooms were port-a-potties
3) there was no changing rooms- there were boarded up for some reason
4) there was a Hill to the lake
5) that her legs were hairy
6) that the lake had a good amount of people at it already
7) that I was treating her like a child
8) Was unhappy that was willing to leave without trying to get my money back.
I told Laura that I couldn't take all of complaining and the stress about my grandmother. She told me that she wasn't complaining she was commenting, it's what she does. So I asked her how she would feel if all I did was make negative comments about something that was special to her, at that point to seemed to understand what I was saying. After fighting for a bit more, I went and got my money back, I was completely honest with the guy. IT seemed like he felt bad for me and gave me the money back. Once I got to the car she had a complete change of heart she felt bad. She made some comment about doing a horrible job at being a girlfriend; she should have been trying to make me feel better not worse. All I can say about that is"no shit". So we got a pizza and went home and watched a movie. I was still feeling depressed and upset.
Monday was even worse. I had to take my car in for Repairs in the morning at 8. I had to ask my girlfriend for a ride back. That all went well. Once we got back home she went back to bed and asked me join her, so I did. We sleep till like 12. That pissed her off. She felt like she wasted her day. There was stuff she wanted to do but didn't. Then she started to bitch about how we don't recycle enough. She didn't feel like working because she was annoyed with how the day was, plus it was raining which is bad for her kinda of job. I told her to call out sick, she didn't want too. So it was time for her to go to work, I asked if I could use her car, she said yes. So was talking her to work in her car, and she comment that was driving like I was going to break her car. She just keeps bitching about things. So at this point, I'm stressed because of my grandmother, about our relationship and stressed because she's bitching non-stop in my ear. So I ran a stop sign. So get really pissed about it. She was making comments about maybe I should borrow her car since it seems like I can't drive. That was my breaking point. I got out of the car, grabbed my bag, and told her I was walking and handed her back her keys. I starting walking off in the raining, she called me and asked if I wanted her keys. I told her no and hung up. A few minutes later I called her back and told her that this was the end of the relationship. She told me that his was horrible timing because she was at work. I told her to make a fucking stance. I listed off a whole list of things she does badly. I told her that "actions speak louder than words" which is her favorite thing to say to me. She told me that she wanted this to work; I was probably foolish and told her that I would give it one more try. She seems to be a little better. I know that I hasn't been long but she really does seem to be trying harder now. I just can't help but wonder if I made that right decision.
On Friday night I think that I may have flirted with a Girl. I was at Bullmoose records, my favorite music store. The lady that was helping me was really sweet and we just kinda clicked I guess. We talked for a bit, I got her E-mail address. I didn't ask for it, she offered it and I accepted. I kinda felt bad about it; I told this lady that I had a Girlfriend and everything so I wasn't hiding anything. I just felt odd that I didn't tell my Girlfriend about it. I know that she wouldn't we happy about it.
On Saturday, me and My Girlfriend had Breakfast with my folks. We went to Cole road caf, I love that place. It was a really nice Breakfast; my brother even paid for it, and let's face it there's nothing like a free meal. After Breakfast we went shopping a bit and went to the Flea market in Saco that I use to workout. The shipping was pretty ok. Once the shopping was done I took my girlfriend to a Bird Sanctuary, she liked it there. We went out on the rocks that were in the ocean. The Tide was coming in so we were getting splashed. It was fun. Later that night we went to a double feature full in, we saw we now pronounce you chuck and Larry and the new Bourne movie. Both movies were pretty good, nothing amazing but good. During the first movie I got a calling informing me that my grandmother was taking to the hospital. We fell and couldn't get up. Well at the hospital we found a growth in one of her lungs and they don't know what it is, but there's been talk of it being cancer.
For this point on, I bitch about my Girlfriend feel free to skip it if you wish.
On Sunday, we went to Visit my Grandmother in the hospital in Sanford. The first went well, I guess. She wasn't looking so good. She looked really tired and her hands and arms were bruised up. After the visit we were going to go swimming at a nearby lake, which I was kinda special to me. I had some problems finding it but we did get there. My girlfriend seemed annoyed with the fact we had to pay $5 to get in. it was down fell from there. She complained so much that we didn't even go swimming.
She complained about
1) having to pay to get in
2) there the restrooms were port-a-potties
3) there was no changing rooms- there were boarded up for some reason
4) there was a Hill to the lake
5) that her legs were hairy
6) that the lake had a good amount of people at it already
7) that I was treating her like a child
8) Was unhappy that was willing to leave without trying to get my money back.
I told Laura that I couldn't take all of complaining and the stress about my grandmother. She told me that she wasn't complaining she was commenting, it's what she does. So I asked her how she would feel if all I did was make negative comments about something that was special to her, at that point to seemed to understand what I was saying. After fighting for a bit more, I went and got my money back, I was completely honest with the guy. IT seemed like he felt bad for me and gave me the money back. Once I got to the car she had a complete change of heart she felt bad. She made some comment about doing a horrible job at being a girlfriend; she should have been trying to make me feel better not worse. All I can say about that is"no shit". So we got a pizza and went home and watched a movie. I was still feeling depressed and upset.
Monday was even worse. I had to take my car in for Repairs in the morning at 8. I had to ask my girlfriend for a ride back. That all went well. Once we got back home she went back to bed and asked me join her, so I did. We sleep till like 12. That pissed her off. She felt like she wasted her day. There was stuff she wanted to do but didn't. Then she started to bitch about how we don't recycle enough. She didn't feel like working because she was annoyed with how the day was, plus it was raining which is bad for her kinda of job. I told her to call out sick, she didn't want too. So it was time for her to go to work, I asked if I could use her car, she said yes. So was talking her to work in her car, and she comment that was driving like I was going to break her car. She just keeps bitching about things. So at this point, I'm stressed because of my grandmother, about our relationship and stressed because she's bitching non-stop in my ear. So I ran a stop sign. So get really pissed about it. She was making comments about maybe I should borrow her car since it seems like I can't drive. That was my breaking point. I got out of the car, grabbed my bag, and told her I was walking and handed her back her keys. I starting walking off in the raining, she called me and asked if I wanted her keys. I told her no and hung up. A few minutes later I called her back and told her that this was the end of the relationship. She told me that his was horrible timing because she was at work. I told her to make a fucking stance. I listed off a whole list of things she does badly. I told her that "actions speak louder than words" which is her favorite thing to say to me. She told me that she wanted this to work; I was probably foolish and told her that I would give it one more try. She seems to be a little better. I know that I hasn't been long but she really does seem to be trying harder now. I just can't help but wonder if I made that right decision.
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I love bad weather, i love watching rain and often go walking in it, my hubby thinks im weird!!!!
I'm sorry about your grandma. I hope everything works out for the best there. It's tough to see someone u love go through that.
With your girlfriend, idk. I know if i was in your situation i would have done the same thing. but i would be doing the exact same thing second guessing myself. I hope things work out, but in my opinion if the arguement comes up again, and one of u walks off, personally i would say just let it go. I mean not every relationship is meant to turn out right?
Neway take care man ttyl.