debrajean

I wonder what the world would be like if people took responsibility for their actions?

If every time someone did something wrong they said:
"Oh dear, I'm sorry. I was wrong. what can I do to fix it?"

Is really that hard to admit that you did someone or something wrong?
Is it the loss of control that scares people?
The affirmation that they are not perfect?
Not wanting to feel like a bad person?
Not wanting to admit that they can hurt other people.
Are they scared of the consequences?


Irresponsible people. Duplicitous people.
People who can't comprehend what it means to be trustworthy.
What is up with you?

Okay, so you refuse to take responsibility for the things you do wrong. More baffling to me is the lies that follow.
Lies don't change what really happened.
Lies don't make the mistakes you created disappear.
Lies don't make you a better person, they make you a person who fucks people over and then lies about it.
If someone has a vested interest in believing that you are perfect of course they will buy the deception but it doesn't make reality a moot point.

And through all of it the fuckover/lie person, knows they are a cheat! They know they are lying! It's unbelievable!

I don't write or say anything that I can't prove.
Don't you wish everyone was like that.