debrajean

book recommendations: Me talk pretty one day (david sedaris), All Creatures Great & Small (james herriot), the hiding place (corrie tenboom) & um anything by dr. suess

Wow - gorgeous shots. Each image has its own personality & truly gives you a feel of capturing a unique moment in time

so so true

I wonder how many other people have found an old pic of their parents in this same pose...

in order....

I can agree wishlists remind me of girls/boys that have expectations from men/women they have no intimate interest in.....borderline/sociopath....who truely is worth bathing in gifts....

they would buy things just for creepy/blinded feelings of acceptance....or they could be "internet" friends.....

I would say Greenpeace donations...but that would be gay....and stupid.....

when it is updated daily......

both look a little desperate....

+People, why would you buy someone something off of a wishlist?

-I'm into random acts of kindness. I used to be part of an online mail-art site (Nervousness.org) in which people would swap their art through the mail and work on collaberative pass-along projects. The group was very close though, so if somebody were having a bad day/ got sick everyone else would send them a little something. Surprises in your mailbox can work wonders for kicking the blues.
I'm constantly subconsciously taking mental notes when people talk about something they want, collect, need, etc, so when I see something and think of somebody, I generally get it for them, regardless of how well I know them. I even buy things for people at tagsales when I overhear them saying they really want it but can't afford it. Creepy? Only if you expect something in return, which I don't. It's just a good feeling. Some people are weirded out by it because it would never occur to them to buy/ give something to somebody they're not very close to, but I rarely find they don't appreciate it.

+What do you think is proper wishlist etiquette?

-posting a wishlist is fine, as is occaisionally talking about things you really want, but I feel like if you actually asking people to buy things for you, you're not likely to get it.

+How much does it take for you become turned off by wish list nagging and pleading or is it part of a game I don't know about?

-nagging and pleading is a complete turnoff for me.

+Would you offer someone something from their wishlist that you already had or do you think it's not the thing but the buying that matters?
Example:I want a sewing machine, would you offer me the one that sits in your attic or would you feel stranger about that then buying something off the wishlist?

-I would definitely offer somebody something from their wishlist that I already have if it's in reasonable condition. They can always tell me they'd rather have it new, which is fine, and if they're more concerned about having things bought for them than the actual item, then they can just go fish that pickle out of their ass.

i'm staying in oakland, which is right next to sf, i guess. i have all of that saturday [the 20th] off. i smell a SHOPPING SPREE.

speaking of which, you should read 'secret rendezvous' by kobo abe. japanese surrealism, complete with pedophilia, hospitals, mystery. there you go.

[Edited on Feb 01, 2005 12:34PM]

olivia at suicidegirls dot com

damnit! ya gotta see it. fear not, kicking-girl of the hating-unhappy. try this one:
http://homepage.mac.com/visitordesign/

then click the little download button for the loden-john-yoko file--sorta big download.

it seems to work without the password.

[Edited on Jan 17, 2005 6:27PM]

hm, well, from a male perspective:

What is the most you would spend on one pair of panties for yourself. :: $12
For someone else? :: $80

What is the most you have spent on your self for panties? :: $0
On someone else? :: $40

What is the least you would spend? :: You pay me?
On someone else? :: They pay me?

Do you have any complaints about panties in general? (can't find any that fit/are in my style & so on...be as specific as you can) :: Not enough (sexy) variety for girls who don't shave; bush doesn't look quite right with a string thong!

Anything you would love to see a underpants company offer that I havent covered here.
(and no one is going to come clean your dirty bathroom so don't even ask!) :: A color code scheme (a la Homeland Security) that indicates the level of risk involved with tongue-bathing that kitty!

Hey you! Love your new set. God, it's been so long since we've talked. I'm leaving this site in a few weeks. You should contact me. I would love to catch up. Take care.

!!! !!!

You should not even have to try at all to hang on to a man.
Wow... your beauty is truly unsurpassed.

I am saddened that I will, in all probability, never be that man.

when i uploaded my profile pic, i thought "damn... she's gonna love this..."

so i should stop trying to teach my friend's newborn to throw the horns?