I come to realize that I'm an unhappy chick magnet.
Seems lately that all I attract are women who have been in a stream of unhappy relationships,
and have more baggage than MC Hammers old touring company. And worse, women who put
me in "The Friend Zone" are now showing interest and don't seem to understand that they
were put in the Zone also. I'm being thrown more hints than a contestant on the "100.000 Dollar
Pyramid". These hints usually come after rants about ex-husbands, ex-boyfriends,ex-fiances
and baby daddies. You have no idea the restraint it takes me to not say "You're the idiot who
got with, stayed with, and/or had a baby with the loser(s)!"
I guess it's just a part of the dating scene of my age group (between 30 and 40). You have to
deal with people who've had bad relationships and are now desperate to find someone before
they turn 40. And single people between 25 and 30 are rare. And when you do find them, they're
usually fresh out of relationship and their wounds are still open or going through that awkward
realization that the world starts to look different and they're trying to "find themselves".
I think I'm gonna have to start dating women under 25, though that's not all that appealing of
thought. If you're able to find a reasonably mature and grounded single person in that age group,
you can bet cash money that not all of their friends are. And yes, their friends are a factor. I'll
have to hang with them socially just like she'll have to hang with mine. And I get annoyed with
people really fast, many people in that age group still act like teenagers. I hate teenagers!
Oh, well. I can always become a hermit.
I got what you need, right here!
Motivation!