I think the moment I finally became disenchanted with casual sex was the moment I realized that some of the most attractive, sensual and desirable women I'd been with frankly didn't know how to fuck. - Quote me on that, that shit's prophetic.
Women - be liberated. Feel sexy. By "feel sexy", I mean don't hide any piece of your anatomy or your inner goddess. A comfortable woman doesn't nervously pull the sheets over her vulva, or cover her tits in shyness. KNOW that you are sexy. If you weren't, that man wouldn't be in bed with you. The only time you should be covering anything is when you are teasing.
If you can't feel sexy, see a fucking therapist.
Don't be afraid to tell your lover what you like, what you dislike, and what you'd like to try in your deepest desires. Do your research, and make sure your lover does the same. Watch GOOD porn.
By GOOD porn, I mean amateur porn - real couples in their bedrooms making love.
And by all means, men, study female anatomy. I've met women that couldn't find their own clitorises, and that's pathetic. But what's equally as pathetic is the number of men that haphazardly hump like a 16 year old at a college party who ended up getting lucky with the drunkest sorority slut.
Loving relationships shouldn't necessarily be based on sex - but good sex relies on communication, which is the basis of a loving relationship.
Women - be liberated. Feel sexy. By "feel sexy", I mean don't hide any piece of your anatomy or your inner goddess. A comfortable woman doesn't nervously pull the sheets over her vulva, or cover her tits in shyness. KNOW that you are sexy. If you weren't, that man wouldn't be in bed with you. The only time you should be covering anything is when you are teasing.
If you can't feel sexy, see a fucking therapist.
Don't be afraid to tell your lover what you like, what you dislike, and what you'd like to try in your deepest desires. Do your research, and make sure your lover does the same. Watch GOOD porn.
By GOOD porn, I mean amateur porn - real couples in their bedrooms making love.
And by all means, men, study female anatomy. I've met women that couldn't find their own clitorises, and that's pathetic. But what's equally as pathetic is the number of men that haphazardly hump like a 16 year old at a college party who ended up getting lucky with the drunkest sorority slut.
Loving relationships shouldn't necessarily be based on sex - but good sex relies on communication, which is the basis of a loving relationship.
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Any sign of insecurity or shyness in a partner is instant turn off. I mean sexually. If you see your partner flinch, hold back words or hide themselves then that in turn creates self awareness in you. You become nervous for them. And urgh...thats not gona ned up be scorching hot sexin is it?