okay so i need some advice from y'all, it seems that all of the romance is gone from mine and my boys relationship and I am not sure a) how to talk to him about it and b) how to bring it back. Any one have any suggestions?
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thepiperunner:
Definitely mention it to him. DO NOT be accusing or place the blame on anyones shoulders. It is normally the mundane aspects of life like working and paying the rent that kills romance in a relationship. You get so caught up in just making ends meet or taking care of responsibilities that you forget to take care of that which makes you truly happy. It's a sick joke life plays on us. I have found in my own relationships that you ignore many responsibilities when a relationship is getting up and going but it is only temporary. Life commitments will only be ignored so long and then they can ruin the bliss of something new and perfect. You both either need to win the lottery or WORK on making sure you spend time on each other. I wish to god I did with my last girlfriend but all too often I was worried about bills and let the things I assumed were little, like flowers and love notes, slip away. Looking back I could have done so much more. I hope you two realize that sooner and it really isn't much effort when it's for someone you love. Best of luck.
airey773:
you're 20. this can happen. just remember it goes both ways and it may just be time to move on. i don't mean that harshly, we've all been there but sometimes some relationships have an expiry date on them and there's no real rhyme or reason. just is. just my 2cents so pls feel free to ignore!