Hello ladies and gents...
I just read a book, that could be an excellent read for both guys and gals. It's called "SHE COMES FIRST" A Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring A Woman. It's written by Ian Kerner, Ph.D.
This is an interesting and very informative look into the female anatomy. He basically, well, not basically but very specifically explains how the whole alpha-male ideal about BIG PENIS=BIG ORGASM is bullshit, and that, just cause guys say things like, "man, I fucked the SHIT out of her!" does'nt mean that she was actually pleased. (although, there certainly are some who ARE pleased with just penetration, and no oral sex. Are these women the exception, or the rule?) I sure as hell don't know. Anyone with any thoughts on the subject should check this book out. I'd be interested to know what anyone thinks as well.
I just read a book, that could be an excellent read for both guys and gals. It's called "SHE COMES FIRST" A Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring A Woman. It's written by Ian Kerner, Ph.D.
This is an interesting and very informative look into the female anatomy. He basically, well, not basically but very specifically explains how the whole alpha-male ideal about BIG PENIS=BIG ORGASM is bullshit, and that, just cause guys say things like, "man, I fucked the SHIT out of her!" does'nt mean that she was actually pleased. (although, there certainly are some who ARE pleased with just penetration, and no oral sex. Are these women the exception, or the rule?) I sure as hell don't know. Anyone with any thoughts on the subject should check this book out. I'd be interested to know what anyone thinks as well.
[Edited on Feb 01, 2006 4:42PM]
Sits across from me, guarded by her desk
Invisible boundry separating the "sick" from all the rest.
tales are told, the ashtray fills,
dreams of FUCK, sluts and pills.
went too far, want too much.
still held back, and never got enough.
loathe myself, hate me whole.
devoid of life, despite my soul.
I could learn, i'd feel new,
if I could see--from under your shoe...