"You fight your superficiality, your shallowness, so as to try to come at people without unreal expectations, without an overload of bias or hope or arrogance, as untanklike as you can be, sans cannon and machine guns and steel plating half a foot thick; you come at them unmenacingly on your own ten toes instead instead of tearing up the turf with your catepilar treads, take them on with an open mind, as equals, man to man, as we used to say, and yet you never fail to get them wrong. You might as well have the brain of a tank. You get them wrong before you meet them; you get them wrong while you're with them; and then you go home to tell somebody else about the meeting and you get them all wrong again. Since the same generally goes for them with you, the whole thing is really dazzling illusion empty of all perception, an astonishing farce of misperception. And yet what are we to do about this terribly significant buisness of other people, which gets bled of the significance we think it has and takes on instead a significance that is ludicrous, so ill-equipped are we all to envision one another's interior workings and invisible aims? Is everyone to go off and lock the door and sit secluded like the lonley writers do, in a soundproof cell, summoning people out of words and then proposing that these word people are closer to the real thing than the real people that we mangle with our ignorance every day? The fact remains that getting people right is not what living is all about anyway. It's getting them wrong and then, on careful reconsideration, getting them wrong again. That's how we know we're alive: we're wrong. Maybe the best thing would be to forget being right or wrong about people and just go along for the ride. But if you can do that--well, lucky you."
American Pastoral
American Pastoral
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Being a Dever-ite, have you ever checked out the 'Modern Drunkard' magazine? I picked up a copy at the Standard Tap last month. Its based in Colorado, so all of the adds deal with bars.club, ongoings in that area. Damn funny writings that go on about drinking. Great stuff, I say.
Also, if you havent seen it already, check out Nick Cave's DVD 'God is in the House'. It came out before X-mas....its a fully lenghth recording of one of his tour dates last year. Its dead on to his NYC performance last summer...brilliant DVD.