Maybe this is not the place for me to vent, but fuck it i need to write it down.
I lost my mum to cancer at the end of last year and i'm fucking sick of people around me that treat me like it never happened. Yeah every now and then i laugh with my friends and i can have a night out but that doesn't mean everything is back to normal, that i'm ok. They don't see me the other days of the week where everything is still fucked and i'm hurting.
I'm sure people treat you this way because it's easier for them, so they don't feel akward beening around you.
You'd be suprised about the amount of people that ask you how you're doing and don't listen for the answer - you get to learn a lot about people.
Anyway it's been a learning experience & fuck them.
I lost my mum to cancer at the end of last year and i'm fucking sick of people around me that treat me like it never happened. Yeah every now and then i laugh with my friends and i can have a night out but that doesn't mean everything is back to normal, that i'm ok. They don't see me the other days of the week where everything is still fucked and i'm hurting.
I'm sure people treat you this way because it's easier for them, so they don't feel akward beening around you.
You'd be suprised about the amount of people that ask you how you're doing and don't listen for the answer - you get to learn a lot about people.
Anyway it's been a learning experience & fuck them.
My friend at work lost his Mum recently and the same thing happened. I couldn't believe it. A lot of people just don't know how to react, so they say nothing at all. Some didn't even write in the card.
Pretty lame.