well this is an update to my previous post about my current situation with this girl i started talking to.
well we went out saturday like we had planned since last week i picked her up at around 2 and got a late lunch, went to go see a movie afterwards and went to the book store. everything was going fine until she had checked her phone and saw she had 3 missed calls. she called back and found out that she had to go pick up her daughter cuz her babys daddys mom was going to austin like right now just out of nowere and they couldn't take her. they told her that they would drop her off at her place on theyre way out. so we ended going back to her place and wait there for them to drop her off. we started watching wedding crashers in the mean time. i was there for a little bit but i decided to leave cuz i told her i didn't know who was gonna show up when they dropped her off. she told i could borrow the movie so i would have an excuse to come back and see her.
we did the whole saying goodbye for like 10 minutes thing. i told her i better go before i keep fighting my urge more. lol she knew right away what i meant by that, that i wanted to give her a kiss. she giggled and looked at me. so i gave her a hug and when we pulled away she kept her arms around me and gave me a kiss
thats how we ended the night.
well let me give a little preluding information about this that might help.
during the week she left me a message on myspace saying "i miss you. can't wait to see you." well i left her one in return saying pretty much the same thing. i think the following night when we were talking on the phone she mentioned that comment i left and that a certain someone saw it and brought it to her attention. she said that he told her that he doesn't care who she sees cuz he knows that they've been over for a while now. well the whole thing about how they had to go to austin thing all of a sudden struck me as a "strange coincidence." what a coincidence that he saw it, i'm sure he mentioned it to his mommy, they knew i was with her saturday cuz they saw me outside when she dropped off her daughter and asked her who i was and decided to end her night short. i told her that they were all probably in on it and did it on purpose. i called her today but it was kinda short and she said that she would call me back but hasn't yet.
heres the other thing. she's originaly from los angles, california. she's metioned it before that she wants to move back there when her lease is over here in a year. but she tells me that anything can happen in a year. she's made it clear that she likes me. but i don't know if i should keep investing time and emotions into this. cuz it's gonna suck bad if i do and she decides to go back to los angles.
so that's pretty much my situation right now. i really don't know what to do....
well we went out saturday like we had planned since last week i picked her up at around 2 and got a late lunch, went to go see a movie afterwards and went to the book store. everything was going fine until she had checked her phone and saw she had 3 missed calls. she called back and found out that she had to go pick up her daughter cuz her babys daddys mom was going to austin like right now just out of nowere and they couldn't take her. they told her that they would drop her off at her place on theyre way out. so we ended going back to her place and wait there for them to drop her off. we started watching wedding crashers in the mean time. i was there for a little bit but i decided to leave cuz i told her i didn't know who was gonna show up when they dropped her off. she told i could borrow the movie so i would have an excuse to come back and see her.
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well let me give a little preluding information about this that might help.
during the week she left me a message on myspace saying "i miss you. can't wait to see you." well i left her one in return saying pretty much the same thing. i think the following night when we were talking on the phone she mentioned that comment i left and that a certain someone saw it and brought it to her attention. she said that he told her that he doesn't care who she sees cuz he knows that they've been over for a while now. well the whole thing about how they had to go to austin thing all of a sudden struck me as a "strange coincidence." what a coincidence that he saw it, i'm sure he mentioned it to his mommy, they knew i was with her saturday cuz they saw me outside when she dropped off her daughter and asked her who i was and decided to end her night short. i told her that they were all probably in on it and did it on purpose. i called her today but it was kinda short and she said that she would call me back but hasn't yet.
heres the other thing. she's originaly from los angles, california. she's metioned it before that she wants to move back there when her lease is over here in a year. but she tells me that anything can happen in a year. she's made it clear that she likes me. but i don't know if i should keep investing time and emotions into this. cuz it's gonna suck bad if i do and she decides to go back to los angles.
so that's pretty much my situation right now. i really don't know what to do....
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You wanted full color right? or like black and gray?.....and ummmmm....how big? where?.....
man...that would suck *big time* if yall get serious and then she moved back to CA.
that is a bit of a strange coincidence....hmmm.
I would talk to her and see just *how serious* she is when she metioned moving back to CA..... ....like ask her what exacly makes her want to go...why.......and what type of situations would make her stay.......stuff like that........it'll be weird asking questions like that i think.....its like an interview. hahahaaa.......but i'd ask.
Sorry I aint been in touch lately but losing track of everyone with work and such at the mo. All a bit chaotic and I've beena little selfish with my time.
If the situation's still up in the air I say spend time with her and don't put a lot of pressure on her. See what time brings and how it unfolds?