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I'm really torn between being single for the first time in about, oh, ten years, and moving in with my girlfriend. There are advantages and disadvantages to both, but at the same time I give up a lot to make either one happen. I love her, but I wonder if I'm not being too stubborn about making it work. I have a bit of a...
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Ok, so tomorrow and thursday my wife moves out. Friday I fly to NC, one way and drive back with my gf so she can move in. Things are friendly and more than that with the wife, but we have things we have to work on separately (and in independent counseling). Final tomorrow and thursday. Quite a few journal entries to make up. Best friend...
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And now things are better? WTF. My life is sooo unstable right now. I'm trying to be happy about the better situation, but I can't trust it yet.

Its been a fucking horrid week. I am now completely single.

Best weekend...ever.


And three days later...dumped. I don't have words or emotions for this.

What do you do when you find our your buddy's wife (who you are also friends with) is cheating on him...when you are sure that it will end their marriage and probably do so kinda violently?

Evidently the incorrect thing to do is figure out why she's cheating and try to get her to open up to her husband about those things while telling her...
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Becka and I went up and visited Jen this last weekend. Holy shit that was a rather long drive. Good times for the most part, though the two of them are still adjusting to each other and that led to some friction. That all got worked out eventually and I think a lot of that will be better and easier on them once she moves...
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So evidently my girlfriend, my wife, and I are all insane. She is moving in in July. We are seeing each other at least 4 times between now and then to make sure everything is as great as it seems.

We have been going through our kitchen stuff since she and I both love to cook and bake, figuring out what each of us has...
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Holy fuck, that could not have gone better. At all. In any way. Except maybe if someone had knocked on our door and offered her a job so she could have stayed.

Things have been rough the past while, but I pick her up at midnight and we'll see how rough they really are then. Hopefully I can get her feeling less nervous and less guilty.

In other news of why today rocks: my semester is over!

Ignore all that I said before, I'm over it. Suddenly everything is much better. Still upset he did the things he did...and the fact that he fucked up his flight and was stuck there an additional day...but he's gone now...and she and I have been talking and things are great.

In other good news I get $1800 back from the government this year.

So I figured out that my main problem with is was the sudden lack of communication and after we talked about that things have been a lot better (as in she is making more time to talk to me, she still hasn't told him . I'm still not happy he is there, but I know she isn't exactly happy about it either. And while I'd...
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