This boy is the most aloof cat I have met. For about 3 months he kept his distance then one day while I was playing around on my PC he came in for a visit. A day later he took a nap in my chest of draws and finally took a liking to the blanket I put ontop of the bed in winter. Now he comes and says hello every night. You can't hug him and he always has that air in indifference cats can have but he's pretty cool.