don't get me wrong, I love my friends...
...but....
they are all fucked when it comes to relationships
...not that I'm king of them or anything....
but I know when to hold 'em and I know when to fold 'em...
One of my best friends is trying to date a girl that I dated for a little while....he is soooo in love with her...and she's not so in love with him...it was REALLY aquward when she, me, him and her boyfriend at the time were hanging out...just the four of us...it kept popping in my mind that we had all seen her naked, not at the same time, mind you...she had seen us all naked, again, not at the same time...but a weird moment nonetheless....
THEN one of my best friends that's a girl...she's been with this dude for 5 months...he has been emotionally abusive at (to) her for the last four...we all try and try to get her to move back home and leave the douche...she wants to change him...and make him better...she finally realised it's not gonna happen...she needs to decide for herself that it's no good...there's nothing we can do to help...except be there for her at 3 am when she calls me saying he's drunk again and telling her she's a "stupid whore" for being a stripper at one point in her life...meanwhile he's a bouncer at that same exact club where he met her BECAUSE she was a dancer...he talks down to her then buys her a dog...he gets pissed at her and throws glasses at the wall when she eats captian crunch out of the box using her hands...then she caught him doing the same fucking thing a few days later...then he buys her flowers...I REALLY wanna go down there with a baseball bat and my brass knucks (uh, I mean paper weight
) and beat the living fuck outta him...but I'm not going to...I'm super protective of my female friends and family, and it's taken an act of god for me not to go down there and beat his ass...but that would be futile...
My mother is married to this guy...he's not a bad guy, but the fuck can't keep a job...he's a one-upper...every story anyone tells, he's done that exact same thing, but more so...and I know they are tall tales...
My sister and her husband are doing well...
I am single...and with all the shit going on in my friend's lives, I see why...but I wouldn't change my friends nor family for anything in or out of this world.
...but....
they are all fucked when it comes to relationships
...not that I'm king of them or anything....
but I know when to hold 'em and I know when to fold 'em...
One of my best friends is trying to date a girl that I dated for a little while....he is soooo in love with her...and she's not so in love with him...it was REALLY aquward when she, me, him and her boyfriend at the time were hanging out...just the four of us...it kept popping in my mind that we had all seen her naked, not at the same time, mind you...she had seen us all naked, again, not at the same time...but a weird moment nonetheless....
THEN one of my best friends that's a girl...she's been with this dude for 5 months...he has been emotionally abusive at (to) her for the last four...we all try and try to get her to move back home and leave the douche...she wants to change him...and make him better...she finally realised it's not gonna happen...she needs to decide for herself that it's no good...there's nothing we can do to help...except be there for her at 3 am when she calls me saying he's drunk again and telling her she's a "stupid whore" for being a stripper at one point in her life...meanwhile he's a bouncer at that same exact club where he met her BECAUSE she was a dancer...he talks down to her then buys her a dog...he gets pissed at her and throws glasses at the wall when she eats captian crunch out of the box using her hands...then she caught him doing the same fucking thing a few days later...then he buys her flowers...I REALLY wanna go down there with a baseball bat and my brass knucks (uh, I mean paper weight
) and beat the living fuck outta him...but I'm not going to...I'm super protective of my female friends and family, and it's taken an act of god for me not to go down there and beat his ass...but that would be futile...My mother is married to this guy...he's not a bad guy, but the fuck can't keep a job...he's a one-upper...every story anyone tells, he's done that exact same thing, but more so...and I know they are tall tales...
My sister and her husband are doing well...
I am single...and with all the shit going on in my friend's lives, I see why...but I wouldn't change my friends nor family for anything in or out of this world.