Its funny how a single comment made by a friend, under the pretense of concern, has the ability to stop me dead in my tracks and cause me to re evaluate my own priorities in life. The question is can someone be overly self indulgent and would that wrong? After puting in way too much of my time thinking about the comment made and what it means to me, i finally came to the conclusion that there is absolutely nothing wrong with being self indulgent, especially if its not causing harm to anyone else. Matter of fact i want to indulge in life, especially my own! And though i'm sure the friend would tsk tsk it,...indulging is something i lvoe to do whether its indulging in buying gorgeous high heel shoes and sexy panties, or indulging in libations and sweet leaf, or even indulging in a weekend of nothing but incredible sex! Everyone should be lucky enough to be able to be self indulgent with thier own lives and enjoy it!

and if I'm causing no harm,
it shouldn't bother you.
Your choice is who you choose to be,
and if your causing no harm,
then youre alright with me.
Cheers!