So, Interesting news. It seems that it has been solidified that in about 8 months, I will be moving to Dallas/ Plano. My boyfriend has been living there for school for quite awhile. Long distance relationships suck. Anyway, when he graduates he is getting a 50k a year job up there thats already lined up, so I'm moving in with him in June. I've been looking at jobs, doesn't look like it will be difficult to find a good one. I've been working at a medical office since I was 16 and i've been promoted several times, from receptionist to front office manager. That always looks good on a resume. I'll finish school at UTD or SMU, I have a 3.77 and 49 hours of community college, so the transfer will be easy.
Still, I'm freaked out. I've never lived with man before. It's scary. If we break up it'll be so fucking complicated. I'm used to dumping a guy and going about my bussiness ASAP. It sounds callous, but why mourn a breakup if you were the one who ended it? i mean, you should have done that already. I digress, I'm just scared of being on my own and making this work. We've been together for a year and half and I have no intention of ending anything, he makes me very very happy, but i know that living together complicates things.
I guess part of it is that i don't believe in marriage, so this is kind of the be all end all of relationships for me. This really is a guy that i'd like to be with forever though. He gets me and he respects me. He loves the idea of me doing SG too, hes very supportive.
I guess I just need to make it Mucky Ducks at least once before I go!
Still, I'm freaked out. I've never lived with man before. It's scary. If we break up it'll be so fucking complicated. I'm used to dumping a guy and going about my bussiness ASAP. It sounds callous, but why mourn a breakup if you were the one who ended it? i mean, you should have done that already. I digress, I'm just scared of being on my own and making this work. We've been together for a year and half and I have no intention of ending anything, he makes me very very happy, but i know that living together complicates things.
I guess part of it is that i don't believe in marriage, so this is kind of the be all end all of relationships for me. This really is a guy that i'd like to be with forever though. He gets me and he respects me. He loves the idea of me doing SG too, hes very supportive.
I guess I just need to make it Mucky Ducks at least once before I go!
and if he really 'gets' you well thats hard to find plus Dallas is only a few hours away....
My only advice is to keep seperate bank accounts, just in case.