Customer service, in my opinion, is in fact an advertising campaign for the Samaritans. You call them after calling you want to kill yourself, you call the Samaritans.
Cunning bastards.
Happy birthday. and hang in there. it is times like this when to breathe fresh air. everyone goes through a bad patch in their marriage. if you feel you have missed something, go over those times you were at your best with him. and a big hug for both of you.
Just have to keep my cheeks firmly clenched.