caryn

thank you! Savage does look pretty ironic when put next to pink panties. If I ever get the right lighting and location, and work out how to focus my camera right before I run into the picture I will be happy!

I hope you are doing well!

Its true. But in my defense, its a DISEASE!

When he came out in January I stole 2 shirts and a flannel! bahahahaha now I need his socks too!

I would steal his undies and pants, but his butt is smaller than mine and they wont fit.
NOT that I tried!

Absolutely beautiful!

I saw all kinds of little prints near this big drain. The kitties (or whatever made them) must have horribly muddy feet

Thank you so much! Your message truly made me feel better!
I LOVE that all my friends give me hugs and try to send love because lets face it, online there is not much one can do. Sometimes validation is what is best tho. Knowing that its ok that I hurt... its ok that I cry.. and its ok that the fact that my foot wont get all better makes me a very angry woman!
I have done nothing but cry all day. I know that I am going to get to see my sweetie, but the pain and the cold is just really kicking my ass. I cant sleep, because apparently in my sleep I stretch and the pain wakes me up and makes me throw up and shake.
I think that the only thing I am truly tired of.. is that I cry all the time. If someone is here, I can hold it back, but the second i am alone all week (which is actually a lot) I sob.
Its funny that everyone thinks that the only things I have going on are 1. my leg 2. this cold/flu and 3. that I miss my sweetie! As if that isnt enough.. I have more that is bothering me.

I have tried so hard to be positive. I might blog about my health and what not, but I always try to be happy on others blogs.. and spread some cheer. I try to let ppl know that a positive attitude goes a long way.. which it DOES.. but its hard to spend all my positive energy on others, when I need some myself.
Being online has given me some of the best friends and best times of my life... but when it comes down to it... I am just another face on the internet. Just another woman that is naked, just another punching bag, and just someone else that has a whole list of issues she is trying to work out. I am no different that the next shmo...and often... that is very apparent to me.

Thank you honey.. thank you so very much!

Ya i thought it was funny too... I dont know about this place lately. NO sense of humor and everyone is so sad and grouchy! I wish I could make it all better!!

The name change wasnt going to stay.. it was just for a day for fun. I am Fishii and always will be!
But it WAS funny tho huh? Aldremech gave me that nickname and its so funny!

I never understood how straight people can be scared of gay people. Some of the nicest and most fascinating people I have ever met are gay.

Did that all get worked out on the boards? I hate when that happens...

And I got it worked out with Sabine. My HHC nurse. I am not going to see that doctor again and I will speak to my Primary AND my infectious diseases doc next week. Until then I have other pain meds, and a tea that Tempest made me that realy helps. One to help the pain meds, and one to help me sleep!

for all your help!!

sometimes I do have a tendency to wear a bit much makeup. Once I find a time machine I'll be sure to travel back and give you guys the story!

Thank you for the comment on my set, I promise the next one will be better!

That is a superb idea...I just dont feel very sexy at the moment. I have a huge hole in my foot that I have to shove gauze in and a tube coming out of my bicep for antibiotics. I am surprised that my guy even was willing to sleep next to me.
Its just been rough... and anything sexual is not so appetizing.

Happy Holidays!

Happy New Years!

Thank you so very much!!!
I am not actually religious..but am spiritual. I am more of an Omnist than anything. This truly touched me that you would take the time so write this, just for me.
And apparently the older I get, I am not that into Christmas either. I am LOVING the food, and making my mom cry happy tears, and watching children hyperventilate while opening gifts. But everything else? Not so much!

Merry Christmas!

Personally, I can't answer any of your questions accurately. I have no clue what the majority of other men or women think or don't think about sex. I know that on this particular site, there are perhaps some of the kinkiest people around. Who wouldn't ever use the word slag, because it isn't even remotely a turn on and is far too tame. You're not going to find a huge majority of good girls and boys here, so we really don't know. As much as you'll see short term members post about their weird issues on the boards they are truly not representative of the community here. Trust me when I say this, the majority of the long term active members on this site are first rate perverts and I mean that as a compliment.

In my relationship, I love head, she loves head. Anal play is great fun. Shibari is fun. Spanking, paddling are fun. Vibrators are fun. Discussing fantasies that go beyond whatever the norm is is fun. Etc, etc, etc.

Respect is not connected to the passion and enjoyment of bedroom activities. She is smarter than I am most of the time, more capable in many different ways. Yet, there are no issues with regards to me holding her down while calling her things that would under other circumstances indicate a lack of respect. To us a hard down and dirty weekend of physically draining fucking is making love. Is our way typical of the rest of society? I truly have no idea.

She is truly bisexual, but monogamous in relationships. Which means she finds women sexually, emotionally and intellectualy, attractive, but also finds men sexually, emotionally and intellectually attractive. I am not the man or the woman she is in love with, I am the person she is in love with. Of course, I'm a man when it comes to the physical, but apparently years of being a pervert has led to some positives.

It is great when she points out the hot woman that I didn't notice and gives us plenty of "fun" things to talk about. Do I think any less of her because of anything? No why would I? She is the woman I love. If some random person called her one of our bedroom names in front of me I'd break their face (or at least scare them senseless.) I honestly don't associate with the men or women that your post addresses, they piss me off. Only a fool sits down at a table with people they don't like on purpose.

P.S.

Well Joker, you managed an excellent answer of my musings, nonetheless! And it was thought-provoking, too. I've heard these things said in every workplace I've been at, and I've heard them in a majority of quasi-social gatherings, as well.

To what extent, then, is it just talk? Or are people who embrace sexuality in all of its complexity and complications---in all its category-defying messiness---more accepting, more inclusive, and less inclined to join the herd when in a group.

Not an entirely academic question, either.

caryn