Yet another "girl-girl" set, and that set me to wondering. What do men really know about women, their bodies, and how our bodies respond sexually?
Do guys know we get wet before we get our period? That the same reason those "from behind" photos are so interesting makes it rather difficult for us to get an idea of what our girl bits look like compared to the lousy drawings that often pass as sex ed? Do they know how much more sensitive our breasts are from their own---that rubbing/kissing/stroking etc... our nipples feels amazing (for us, anyway)?
Do boys know our clitoris is very much like their penis; that we get erections, very much as they do, and that the reason we can **sometimes** have serial orgasms is because our clitoris does not fully devasculate, unlike their penis? That despite the politics of it, fucking feels pretty good, and some fucking may feel very good, but we can no more have an orgasm without our clitoris being stimulated (somehow) that they can without having their penis stimulated? And that fucking can stimulate our clitoris any of several ways (even in the missionary position)?
Do boys know that girls masturbate, and how the majority of us go about it?
Conversely, what do girls know about boys---especially str8 girls?
And how does what we all knew at 9-16 compare to what we know now? How much do young men and young women know about how each others' bodies work---not their minds and emotions, but their bodies?
Do men really want to know some of the ways queer women have sex, or is their interest in seeing women confined to str8 women playing?
Do guys know we get wet before we get our period? That the same reason those "from behind" photos are so interesting makes it rather difficult for us to get an idea of what our girl bits look like compared to the lousy drawings that often pass as sex ed? Do they know how much more sensitive our breasts are from their own---that rubbing/kissing/stroking etc... our nipples feels amazing (for us, anyway)?
Do boys know our clitoris is very much like their penis; that we get erections, very much as they do, and that the reason we can **sometimes** have serial orgasms is because our clitoris does not fully devasculate, unlike their penis? That despite the politics of it, fucking feels pretty good, and some fucking may feel very good, but we can no more have an orgasm without our clitoris being stimulated (somehow) that they can without having their penis stimulated? And that fucking can stimulate our clitoris any of several ways (even in the missionary position)?
Do boys know that girls masturbate, and how the majority of us go about it?
Conversely, what do girls know about boys---especially str8 girls?
And how does what we all knew at 9-16 compare to what we know now? How much do young men and young women know about how each others' bodies work---not their minds and emotions, but their bodies?
Do men really want to know some of the ways queer women have sex, or is their interest in seeing women confined to str8 women playing?
lily:
are you an artist?
caryn:
Not really, at least not in the usual sense. I write pornography (for which I am sometimes even paid), which I feel is rather good. I write short fiction (for which I generally do not get paid), which I feel is solid. I act and write and direct local plays---and posed for pornographic photographs, once upon a time. I suppose I would say I am expressive, but not truly artistic, though if I had a bit more discipline (of the boring sort) I might be a much better writer (there is the difficult, boring chore of actually writing the **whole** story once one has thought out where it goes, rather than merely leaving off).