I got a little irritated at the general anti-pop postings here so I've been away for a while. But Vanessa's video blogs and general cuteness made me miss the site. Miss seeing cool people and communicating with similar interests. Even if I don't agree with their point of view. It kinda reminds me of . . .
I used to work with a guy (actually, he worked for me) -he was brilliant, I never tried to act smarter than him, because I wasn't.But I was the boss, and had my (company's) agenda to manage. I let him comment and/or disagree with me for a while, and took his suggestions with merit. -for a while. Eventually, I realized this guy and I just wouldn't ever agree on anything. I realized (almost too late) that his suggestions were good, but didn't align with mine. And arguing and debating issues with him would be a waste of time. I didn't ignore his comments, I just gave them less merit. Less weight, less respect. He's disagreeing because he has to. It's in his nature. He had expressed his opinion so much (and not even in any rude manner) that he had watered down his own worth.
Well, I don't think it's SG as a site that has this problem. (An inherent need to disagree, argue, debate, hate, attack, bully, etc.) It's just human nature. Coupled with Mob mentality and a group that is -by design- anti-establishment.
So I rejoin the living, active again for whatever it's worth, among fellow SG'ers with similar interests and differing points of view.
At least I'll be commenting on my girlfriends page again. Oh, and the comics forum. I miss that a lot too. -Oh, and the naked chicks.
I used to work with a guy (actually, he worked for me) -he was brilliant, I never tried to act smarter than him, because I wasn't.But I was the boss, and had my (company's) agenda to manage. I let him comment and/or disagree with me for a while, and took his suggestions with merit. -for a while. Eventually, I realized this guy and I just wouldn't ever agree on anything. I realized (almost too late) that his suggestions were good, but didn't align with mine. And arguing and debating issues with him would be a waste of time. I didn't ignore his comments, I just gave them less merit. Less weight, less respect. He's disagreeing because he has to. It's in his nature. He had expressed his opinion so much (and not even in any rude manner) that he had watered down his own worth.
Well, I don't think it's SG as a site that has this problem. (An inherent need to disagree, argue, debate, hate, attack, bully, etc.) It's just human nature. Coupled with Mob mentality and a group that is -by design- anti-establishment.
So I rejoin the living, active again for whatever it's worth, among fellow SG'ers with similar interests and differing points of view.
At least I'll be commenting on my girlfriends page again. Oh, and the comics forum. I miss that a lot too. -Oh, and the naked chicks.
pyromethious:
There's neke chicks on here? I must have been staring at the artwork to hard :-p. Eh, doesn't matter...no fun if I can, well...whatever comes to mind...with/to them anyway.
dorsal:
