Someone asked me today how come I am such a flirt and at the same time can seem so dismissive of women. After giving her a look and asking her what the definition of "flirt" and "dismissive" meant. I explained 2 simple things.
1) For as long as I can remember I have always behaved the way I do, completly, towards everyone I don't despise. Guy, girl, old, young, married, single. I have a way about me that makes people feel attractive and good about themselves. Not that that's intentional. I even get that result with people I don't truly like and am just being polite with. It's not flirting at all because I could care less. It's just the combination of me being goofy added to the fact that no one in the history of the world has ever been able to figure out why I behave the way I do. So people just assume. No biggy doesn't hurt me none. I act 2 ways. This way, and they way I behave towards people I don't like. Since I usually don't associate with people not worth my time, only one side of me shows.
It's not fake it's just universal. I believe all people deserve to be treated as fun and attractive because I deserve to be treated that way. And those that don't deserve this treatment aren't people in my eyes. They are scum. Plain and simple.
2) I'm not dismissive towards women.....exactly. I just don't understand it. I don't get it. Prolly never will. Are women nice to look at? Yes. Soft and fun to touch? Absolutly. Sex? Good? Damn straight. But I just don't understand why anyone would want a woman around, just because they are a woman. The only women in my life are either relatives, friends GFs, or friends. If they are my friends it's because they behave the exact same way as my guy friends. I don't understand the fascination towards the opposite sex.
The attitude: There's no one of the opposite sex around, that is bad. Baffles me. It get's to the point that a man wants a woman around first, and then decides after if she's worth keeping around.
This prolly why I've always gone for the bad girls anyways. I tend to hang out with people like myself, and some of them are female. And females who are like me are very ....different than the average female. Which makes sense since I'm not a woman. I tend to be pulled towards people with rebelous, mischeivous attitudes. Who also are intelligent and in control of themselves even if the rest of their lives are chaotic. Rebelous and mischievous in a girl is never a "good girl" quality. But even then it falls in my lap. I didn't "look" for it. And if it goes away I don't miss it.
So I'm generally dismissive towards people who aren't worth my time. We all are. But since I am equally dismissive towards the Hot, sexxy, attractive women people notice that more than me disregarding a guy.
People think it's an odd characteristic of me. I don't really involve myself with women.
Told you I don't make any sense.
1) For as long as I can remember I have always behaved the way I do, completly, towards everyone I don't despise. Guy, girl, old, young, married, single. I have a way about me that makes people feel attractive and good about themselves. Not that that's intentional. I even get that result with people I don't truly like and am just being polite with. It's not flirting at all because I could care less. It's just the combination of me being goofy added to the fact that no one in the history of the world has ever been able to figure out why I behave the way I do. So people just assume. No biggy doesn't hurt me none. I act 2 ways. This way, and they way I behave towards people I don't like. Since I usually don't associate with people not worth my time, only one side of me shows.
It's not fake it's just universal. I believe all people deserve to be treated as fun and attractive because I deserve to be treated that way. And those that don't deserve this treatment aren't people in my eyes. They are scum. Plain and simple.
2) I'm not dismissive towards women.....exactly. I just don't understand it. I don't get it. Prolly never will. Are women nice to look at? Yes. Soft and fun to touch? Absolutly. Sex? Good? Damn straight. But I just don't understand why anyone would want a woman around, just because they are a woman. The only women in my life are either relatives, friends GFs, or friends. If they are my friends it's because they behave the exact same way as my guy friends. I don't understand the fascination towards the opposite sex.
The attitude: There's no one of the opposite sex around, that is bad. Baffles me. It get's to the point that a man wants a woman around first, and then decides after if she's worth keeping around.
This prolly why I've always gone for the bad girls anyways. I tend to hang out with people like myself, and some of them are female. And females who are like me are very ....different than the average female. Which makes sense since I'm not a woman. I tend to be pulled towards people with rebelous, mischeivous attitudes. Who also are intelligent and in control of themselves even if the rest of their lives are chaotic. Rebelous and mischievous in a girl is never a "good girl" quality. But even then it falls in my lap. I didn't "look" for it. And if it goes away I don't miss it.
So I'm generally dismissive towards people who aren't worth my time. We all are. But since I am equally dismissive towards the Hot, sexxy, attractive women people notice that more than me disregarding a guy.
People think it's an odd characteristic of me. I don't really involve myself with women.
Told you I don't make any sense.
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I'm rebelious,
The Sickabilly's CD is so awesome! It's the only CD in my car at the moment!
That show at Jake's sounded like a good time, but I generally don't like going to shows there. Anyway, I'll be seeing those guys tonight.
To answer your qhuestion, I saw them several times while living in Providence. Guess we just didn't recognize eachother, which isn't suprising.