Y.H.Y.C
It is one of my most sacred rules. It is crucial to a persons self confidence as well as value in the eyes of the opposite sex. Not following this rule is guaranteed to get people to look at you as a joke. Or a sucker. Basically one of those people who has the ability to get out of a bad relationship but doesn't. Pitiful.
YHYC
Basicaly every human has the right to demand to be valued. Specificaly to who they are dating. It is valueable, damn right cherishable at times. It doesn't matter if it's the first date or 40 anniversary. At some degree your relationship is valueable.
Dating someone is giving someone a shot at entering your life in good name. And vice versa. That's special. Even if it's just for random sex. That person still chose you over others. You should appreciate that. It's not something to be snuffed at or gambled with.
YHYC
It comes into play when someone decides to lose that appreciation.
YHYC= You had your chance.
Basicaly anyone who has ever shared anything with you and decided to screw with it.....had their chance. They just dropped it. Gambled with it, desrespected it, whatever.
If they afterwards realize they were stupid for not giving you what they deserved they want you back.
NEVER GIVE THEM A SECOND CHANCE.
First off there's the reality that guy/ girls can fuck with you and you'll swallow you selfrespect and let them get away with it.
Second others will look at you as a glutton for punishment and humiliation. They'll think you can't get better than the guy who beats you, or the girl who fucks your buddies.
Thirdly they'll believe they can do it again and be forgiven. Even if they honestly believe they won't the back of their mind has proof. I got away with it once. That knowledge will never go away.
It's completly asinine to take them back. If you had a magic closet that sprouted freshly new and ironed shirts, how stupid would it be to ignore them and wear a dirty wrinkled one from yesterday? There are hundreds of guy/girls out there who haven't fucked you over. It's ridiculous to pick a specimen proven to be dangerous. Like buying a dog that bites over the ones that don't.
So do u still luv them? If you still luv them then you love how they wronged u. -10 self confidence points everytime you even consider it.
Look you don't have to hate them. You can forgive them. Hang out with them. Even sleep with them. But choose them over another and your an idiot.
YHYC. People WILL respect you and find you attractive for it. They'll think you can afford to be picky. They'll believe you don't take bull from anyone. Chances of them pulling crap on you will be reduced too. The rule is absolutly flawless. Follow it. Or you forfeit any right to ever bitch if it happens again. And be the target of endless I told you so's from your own reflection.
Fool me once shame on blahblahblah.
The Cap wishes he had had someone teach him these things rather than learn tem on their own.
It is one of my most sacred rules. It is crucial to a persons self confidence as well as value in the eyes of the opposite sex. Not following this rule is guaranteed to get people to look at you as a joke. Or a sucker. Basically one of those people who has the ability to get out of a bad relationship but doesn't. Pitiful.
YHYC
Basicaly every human has the right to demand to be valued. Specificaly to who they are dating. It is valueable, damn right cherishable at times. It doesn't matter if it's the first date or 40 anniversary. At some degree your relationship is valueable.
Dating someone is giving someone a shot at entering your life in good name. And vice versa. That's special. Even if it's just for random sex. That person still chose you over others. You should appreciate that. It's not something to be snuffed at or gambled with.
YHYC
It comes into play when someone decides to lose that appreciation.
YHYC= You had your chance.
Basicaly anyone who has ever shared anything with you and decided to screw with it.....had their chance. They just dropped it. Gambled with it, desrespected it, whatever.
If they afterwards realize they were stupid for not giving you what they deserved they want you back.
NEVER GIVE THEM A SECOND CHANCE.
First off there's the reality that guy/ girls can fuck with you and you'll swallow you selfrespect and let them get away with it.
Second others will look at you as a glutton for punishment and humiliation. They'll think you can't get better than the guy who beats you, or the girl who fucks your buddies.
Thirdly they'll believe they can do it again and be forgiven. Even if they honestly believe they won't the back of their mind has proof. I got away with it once. That knowledge will never go away.
It's completly asinine to take them back. If you had a magic closet that sprouted freshly new and ironed shirts, how stupid would it be to ignore them and wear a dirty wrinkled one from yesterday? There are hundreds of guy/girls out there who haven't fucked you over. It's ridiculous to pick a specimen proven to be dangerous. Like buying a dog that bites over the ones that don't.
So do u still luv them? If you still luv them then you love how they wronged u. -10 self confidence points everytime you even consider it.
Look you don't have to hate them. You can forgive them. Hang out with them. Even sleep with them. But choose them over another and your an idiot.
YHYC. People WILL respect you and find you attractive for it. They'll think you can afford to be picky. They'll believe you don't take bull from anyone. Chances of them pulling crap on you will be reduced too. The rule is absolutly flawless. Follow it. Or you forfeit any right to ever bitch if it happens again. And be the target of endless I told you so's from your own reflection.
Fool me once shame on blahblahblah.
The Cap wishes he had had someone teach him these things rather than learn tem on their own.
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cap:
I gotta disagree. And as for divorce.....divorce in my book doesn't apply here. Almost all divorces are a result of making a desicion without actually making a desicion. People who should never have gotten married in the first place gettin married. The rest of the time, factors arise that can't be helped. Which forces a divorce. So what about those few couples that break up because someone messed up. Well that goes either way. If they messed up then it's possible you two don't belong together. But more importantly if you end a marriage that easily over the mess up. You should'nt have gotten married to begin with. Marriage isn't dating. You can't just walk away. If you think you can you shouldn't be married yet...to anyone. All our grandparents understood this. Divorce never crossed there mind. Sometimes, separate beds, bedrooms, houses. But it was always temporary. Till the issue was solved. See what I mean? If you end up getting divorced it's always for bigger reasons than the screw up.
boxing_helena:
i'm open minded, anything that will pay the bills ( i used to be a florist).