I remember once telling.......somebody something smart about timing. I think 
I'm pretty sure what I said was that everyone in this world has their own agenda. Their own priorities and gameplan how to get them. Sometimes you meet someone with the same agenda and you decide to play the game together till you don't have the same agenda anymore. Whether its friends, work, dating, whatever.
My agenda is simple. I just got nice and single again and I wanna splurg on it. I want a lil time to be selfish. Very selfish. It sounds practical. Logical. Perhaps even reasonable. So why is it pissing people off?!
I have one serious strength/weakness. I almost never lie. I either tell the truth or I don't answer at all. The reason it's a weakness is because my friends know it. They know that if they have the guts to straight out ask me a question I'll answer it. Obviously I can see it coming if its gonna suck to answer but if they do it so I don't notice I'm screwed.
So heres how it came to suck. My friends girlfriend has a friend. Would I sleep with her? Yes. Do I want to now? No.
So she comes up and starts asking "supposedly" acedemic questions. And I look her in the eye and say. I have no desire to add anymore women to my friends list. I'm not gonna ask for her number. Because I won't call her. I don't want another female friend either. I have plenty already and would prefer to consentrate on how women can fill my needs at the moment. It sounds sleazy but its the way it is. I just got out of a relationship. I want to meet someone whos interested in some fun. Thats where my energy's going. And a friendship to eventual dating situation doesn't appeal to me now. And I'm not gonna lead her on like and say differently.
Thats what I feel so that's what I said. I don't think it's wrong cuz they asked for truth they got truth. If they can't handle the answer then don't ask.
So she isn't pleased that I've basically said her friend isn't friendly sex material. Not pleased at all. My buddy is wincing as she asks the next question. He knows it could go bad.
"So you just want some slut to bang is that it?"
*Amused eyebrow raises*
"No hun I want to meet someone who shares a mutual sexual attraction and can handle an event to event type of relationship. If I wanted easy sex and didn't care about the girls fragile Psyce then you wouldn't be here. You'd be sharing tissues with your friend wondering why BOTH of us haven't called. Now if you're gonna keep this up go home."
Thus ended the conversation. Very simple. I don't want another relationship. I do need to get a good lay finally! I don't want it to be with a nameless girl I don't care for.
I just want to pick a girl, up have fun, treat her good, have her appreciate it, great sex, and not go from there. If they wanna do it a second time? Great. But its not a relationship. Just a series of evenings. For someone who just got free that's not too much to ask.
O well I'm gonna have to call my buddy and hear how amusing the ride home was. Later.
I'm pretty sure what I said was that everyone in this world has their own agenda. Their own priorities and gameplan how to get them. Sometimes you meet someone with the same agenda and you decide to play the game together till you don't have the same agenda anymore. Whether its friends, work, dating, whatever.
My agenda is simple. I just got nice and single again and I wanna splurg on it. I want a lil time to be selfish. Very selfish. It sounds practical. Logical. Perhaps even reasonable. So why is it pissing people off?!
I have one serious strength/weakness. I almost never lie. I either tell the truth or I don't answer at all. The reason it's a weakness is because my friends know it. They know that if they have the guts to straight out ask me a question I'll answer it. Obviously I can see it coming if its gonna suck to answer but if they do it so I don't notice I'm screwed.
So heres how it came to suck. My friends girlfriend has a friend. Would I sleep with her? Yes. Do I want to now? No.
So she comes up and starts asking "supposedly" acedemic questions. And I look her in the eye and say. I have no desire to add anymore women to my friends list. I'm not gonna ask for her number. Because I won't call her. I don't want another female friend either. I have plenty already and would prefer to consentrate on how women can fill my needs at the moment. It sounds sleazy but its the way it is. I just got out of a relationship. I want to meet someone whos interested in some fun. Thats where my energy's going. And a friendship to eventual dating situation doesn't appeal to me now. And I'm not gonna lead her on like and say differently.
Thats what I feel so that's what I said. I don't think it's wrong cuz they asked for truth they got truth. If they can't handle the answer then don't ask.
So she isn't pleased that I've basically said her friend isn't friendly sex material. Not pleased at all. My buddy is wincing as she asks the next question. He knows it could go bad.
"So you just want some slut to bang is that it?"
*Amused eyebrow raises*
"No hun I want to meet someone who shares a mutual sexual attraction and can handle an event to event type of relationship. If I wanted easy sex and didn't care about the girls fragile Psyce then you wouldn't be here. You'd be sharing tissues with your friend wondering why BOTH of us haven't called. Now if you're gonna keep this up go home."
Thus ended the conversation. Very simple. I don't want another relationship. I do need to get a good lay finally! I don't want it to be with a nameless girl I don't care for.
I just want to pick a girl, up have fun, treat her good, have her appreciate it, great sex, and not go from there. If they wanna do it a second time? Great. But its not a relationship. Just a series of evenings. For someone who just got free that's not too much to ask.
O well I'm gonna have to call my buddy and hear how amusing the ride home was. Later.