Dear friends and lurkers,
there will be no featured song in this entry. Instead, I am going to share something from my heart.
I have learned some hard and harsh lessons in the last 9 months but none moreso than the lesson I learned tonight. Being happy means being yourself, and if being yourself means that you wind up missing out on something wonderfull, then so be it. My grandfather once said to me, "Son, theres no time for fucking around in this life. You want something, you better step up and take it because no one's gonna hand it to ya."
I never knew what he mean't untill tonight. I learned a hard lesson tonight and that is this...be who you are and fuck everyone else if they dont like it. Theres no time for being on your best behavior. No time for pussy-footing around with people. I have found myself in a very unique position and by prancing around all cautious and carefull, I was making myself crazy by not acknowledging how I really felt. One year ago, I would have continued pransing without a second thought to it, but that time is gone. That person is dead and burried. In fact I can prove it!
Proof!
Anyway, moving on to other items on the agenda...
Ladies, I have some advice for all the beautiful women out there...if your man doesn't tell you that you're beautiful and special every day, then hes not the right man. Get yourself a better one. And if he does tell you everyday, do him and you a favour and BELIEVE what he says!
Guys, your ladies are beautiful and special, just like they were the first time you laid eyes on them. You would do well to remember that because if you don't, someone is going to step up and take them from you. I have to credit Maxi with that wisdom because she wrote that very sentiment to me many months ago and I have to say that its true. Experience isnt always a kind teacher.
Lastly, if something didnt work out in the past, and nothing has changed to give any reasonable degree of expectation that it will work for you in the future...give your head a shake! If you hit your thumb with a hammer, do you keep swinging? No you dont! You drop that fucking hammer and find the the right "tool" for the job. This applies to people as well. Example, my ex's parents divorced MANNNNNYYYY years ago and one christmas, they hatched this assinine idea that they would try again and get back together. My ex looked at them and said "Have either of you addressed any of the issues that split you up in the first place?" The answer of course was "No."
She looked at them squarely and said verbatum "Then what makes you think anything has changed? I love you both but what the fuck is wrong with you?"
Shes a smart one, that ex of mine.
Anyway, I'm done prancing around all carefull and cautious.
Now which of these fucking boxes has my rope and where can I find handcuffs in this town?
Thanks for reading.
Peace.
Im out.
there will be no featured song in this entry. Instead, I am going to share something from my heart.
I have learned some hard and harsh lessons in the last 9 months but none moreso than the lesson I learned tonight. Being happy means being yourself, and if being yourself means that you wind up missing out on something wonderfull, then so be it. My grandfather once said to me, "Son, theres no time for fucking around in this life. You want something, you better step up and take it because no one's gonna hand it to ya."
I never knew what he mean't untill tonight. I learned a hard lesson tonight and that is this...be who you are and fuck everyone else if they dont like it. Theres no time for being on your best behavior. No time for pussy-footing around with people. I have found myself in a very unique position and by prancing around all cautious and carefull, I was making myself crazy by not acknowledging how I really felt. One year ago, I would have continued pransing without a second thought to it, but that time is gone. That person is dead and burried. In fact I can prove it!
Proof!
Anyway, moving on to other items on the agenda...
Ladies, I have some advice for all the beautiful women out there...if your man doesn't tell you that you're beautiful and special every day, then hes not the right man. Get yourself a better one. And if he does tell you everyday, do him and you a favour and BELIEVE what he says!
Guys, your ladies are beautiful and special, just like they were the first time you laid eyes on them. You would do well to remember that because if you don't, someone is going to step up and take them from you. I have to credit Maxi with that wisdom because she wrote that very sentiment to me many months ago and I have to say that its true. Experience isnt always a kind teacher.
Lastly, if something didnt work out in the past, and nothing has changed to give any reasonable degree of expectation that it will work for you in the future...give your head a shake! If you hit your thumb with a hammer, do you keep swinging? No you dont! You drop that fucking hammer and find the the right "tool" for the job. This applies to people as well. Example, my ex's parents divorced MANNNNNYYYY years ago and one christmas, they hatched this assinine idea that they would try again and get back together. My ex looked at them and said "Have either of you addressed any of the issues that split you up in the first place?" The answer of course was "No."
She looked at them squarely and said verbatum "Then what makes you think anything has changed? I love you both but what the fuck is wrong with you?"
Shes a smart one, that ex of mine.
Anyway, I'm done prancing around all carefull and cautious.
Now which of these fucking boxes has my rope and where can I find handcuffs in this town?
Thanks for reading.
Peace.
Im out.
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