I was just thinking... 🤔
Those of us that are married we should respect our in-laws... I see so many people talk shit and act like assholes towards their in-laws. Luckily I was blessed with very welcoming and loving and in-laws and know most of you were too.
My in-laws took me in as one of their own treat me as such. I give them as much respect as I give my parents. You should do the same you don't ignore a text, you don't ignore their calls, don't ignore their love, or anything at all.
Think about it, I'm saying dig deep down & really think it threw, that was their son or daughter before they were anything to you. They brought that person into this world for you. Show them your gratitude! Let's them spend time with you kids. (You know you could use the moment to take a break for yourself for once) Spend time with them and help them no matter what. Say you eat dinner with them, clean the kitchen when y'all are done. That shows them that you are grateful.
Don't just leave the mess and leave right after your done.
You would be surprised if you took a moment and stop being a brat to say thank you instead of ignoring a call/text. Even if you don't agree with what they have to say listen, doesn't mean you have to do what they have to say, but just listen if you don't like it let it go in one ear and out the other, nod smile and go on about your day. You owe them your attention at the least.
Ok I'm done. Have a great day.... 😅
-I posted this on FB, I have a big extended family, and I see so many kids (I'm talking about us) treating in-laws like shit. I don't think it's right.
Even when I am furious with my in-laws I still show them repespect. I keep my mouth shut. And let them keep doing whateve it is, they are wiser than I am they know better. I do at times voice my opinion and I always stand my ground on certain topics. But I never treat them like I see others treating their's. I just pisses me off and I needed to vent...