Thinker Log in Phrases Authors Recent MORE Deception text About 899 Deception text I write this chronicle for so-and-so who simply suffered a love disappointment. Don't be so sad, I say right now. A disappointment is proof that you are on the wrong path, that that is not the one on the road that takes you to your destination. You are there happy with life, thinking that everything is going so right that it cannot go wrong; there it is, you can. People have a habit of expecting a lot from others, especially from those we love, whom we offer everything they could expect, we expect reciprocity. The problem is that nobody knows anyone, it's all guesswork, I can assume he loves me, I can't be sure, and neither can he. Okay, now that you are disconsolate, what to do? Go ahead, leave behind what made them suffer, it's not worth carrying it with you, just for the sake of it, just because you want to continue, it's not worth it. If it didn't work, it didn't. You tried, you stepped on your pride many times, you forgot to love yourself more. I do not say that it is simple, that it is easy, I say that it is necessary, it is a renewal phase, and we are generally not prepared for changes, but it is the best thing to do, these are steps that must be followed, with willingness, to get out of the end of the well, to get out of this pit, it is necessary. First of all, put it in your head that something better awaits you up front, there is always something better. You needed to learn this lesson, to prepare yourself better to receive the best. So take away any idea of guilt, that you could have done more, this is definitely not your fault, sometimes people are so stupid (I was once stupid) that they feel guilty about the inevitable. Add with this theory that there is a return, that this time it will be different. Will not. People can pretend to be what they want to be, but they don't change. Do not mask your suffering with parties and "enjoyment", this is the biggest mistake, suffer with you, take the time to spend more time with you,after all, you are a great company, the best of all. Do what you like, learn new things, dedicate yourself to a project that didn't have time, it will do you good. Raise your self-esteem, see yourself better, see yourself better. Beware of relapses, they will appear at any moment, and you will feel like crying, calling, humiliating yourself to get out of the pain, do not fall, be strong, always ... After all, only you have your own control, you are going through a recovery process, as if you were in a drug addiction clinic, in which the drug, (the drug, lol) is the one who made you be here, alone, hurt, with no prospect of life. However, live you, you do not need someone who does not want to be with you, who does not deserve you, you need to grow, to become stronger to face your challenges throughout life. Because, I'm sorry to say, the most important things in life than suffering for love. by Bunnie