“Love forgives everything” is a very beautiful phrase in theory, but in practice, things change. You are not obliged to forgive anyone, nor should you forgive everything. If a person hurts you more than once, for example, he is settling in and finding it comfortable. How many times will you feel hurt in the name of love? What kind of love is this that makes you cry more than smile? Whoever loves, therefore, changes so as not to hurt the other. Improves posture. If you don't do that, it's not love, it's complacency.

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sanderkentin1977:
Nice blog and so true
elixic:
I think it's important to remind people that to forgive does not mean to absolve. Trust has to be earned over time. Even if a person is forgiven there are still consequences to their actions. Apologies without behavior change are nothing more than emotional manipulation. A real apology will come with the knowledge that trust has to be earned again, and work will have to be done to earn it. Forgiveness is something that we do for ourselves, so that we do not become bitter, it is not something we do for the person who wronged us.

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