ok well here is my big update.
a few weeks ago, a friend of mine whom ive never actually met in person, was getting evicted from her apartment along with her ex. i chose to take her into my house. she had had a really rough relationship and we had hit it off for the past year or more online. i was totally falling for her.
she gets here and everything seemed great for the first week and a half. i told her that i wanted to be that "good guy" that shes been looking for and that id give her the world if she let me.
turns out right before i did that she met some guy that she kinda knew from HS and hooked up with him and thought she was in love with him. she never told me. she hid it from me. so here i am trying to be her man when she already had one and kept saying how she wasnt ready to be with anyone.
a friend of hers msgs me and tells me whats going on. i confronted her a few times, nicely, that it didnt bother me that she found someone, but i didnt like that she lied to me about it. 2 weeks go by and she keeps lying to me.
i tried to do the right thing by taking her in when no one else would. i really liked her. but apprently the nice guy thing just aint going no where. hell it never has for me. so last night i sent her new bf a msg and asked him to take her away with him. that i was tired of this high school drama and lying. i couldnt live with myself if i let her stay with me any longer. i know it was the right thing to do to take her in, and also to let her go. she has never learned from her past relationships i guess, even tho ive helped her out with those with advice.
ive been nothing but kind and generous with her. with my apartment, my money, time and emotions. but that didnt mean shit i guess.
so now here i am, broken once again, just like i was 2 years ago when i was forced to break it off with my ex of 3 years who was constantly cheating on me and denying it.
i feel like an asshole for kicking her out even tho i had told her in the begining that i never would. but at the same time i feel so much more relieved that i did it. i know it was the right thing but its going to bug me for a really long time. shes completely broken off contact from me via facebook and even blocked me. way to appreciate everything ive done for her, right?
im tired of finding these younger girls who just think they are still in hs and play with this drama bullshit. i need a woman who knows what she wants, and i need one that i can settle down with. im 29 years old an i dont need this. i just want a normal person who will like me for me, and want to be with me. its tough when i see all my cousins and friends all married and with kids and im still the "single one". it sucks.
so thats it, rant over. now for some more alcohol. and yes, ive been drinking since 8:10am.
[insert sympathy here]
a few weeks ago, a friend of mine whom ive never actually met in person, was getting evicted from her apartment along with her ex. i chose to take her into my house. she had had a really rough relationship and we had hit it off for the past year or more online. i was totally falling for her.
she gets here and everything seemed great for the first week and a half. i told her that i wanted to be that "good guy" that shes been looking for and that id give her the world if she let me.
turns out right before i did that she met some guy that she kinda knew from HS and hooked up with him and thought she was in love with him. she never told me. she hid it from me. so here i am trying to be her man when she already had one and kept saying how she wasnt ready to be with anyone.
a friend of hers msgs me and tells me whats going on. i confronted her a few times, nicely, that it didnt bother me that she found someone, but i didnt like that she lied to me about it. 2 weeks go by and she keeps lying to me.
i tried to do the right thing by taking her in when no one else would. i really liked her. but apprently the nice guy thing just aint going no where. hell it never has for me. so last night i sent her new bf a msg and asked him to take her away with him. that i was tired of this high school drama and lying. i couldnt live with myself if i let her stay with me any longer. i know it was the right thing to do to take her in, and also to let her go. she has never learned from her past relationships i guess, even tho ive helped her out with those with advice.
ive been nothing but kind and generous with her. with my apartment, my money, time and emotions. but that didnt mean shit i guess.
so now here i am, broken once again, just like i was 2 years ago when i was forced to break it off with my ex of 3 years who was constantly cheating on me and denying it.
i feel like an asshole for kicking her out even tho i had told her in the begining that i never would. but at the same time i feel so much more relieved that i did it. i know it was the right thing but its going to bug me for a really long time. shes completely broken off contact from me via facebook and even blocked me. way to appreciate everything ive done for her, right?
im tired of finding these younger girls who just think they are still in hs and play with this drama bullshit. i need a woman who knows what she wants, and i need one that i can settle down with. im 29 years old an i dont need this. i just want a normal person who will like me for me, and want to be with me. its tough when i see all my cousins and friends all married and with kids and im still the "single one". it sucks.
so thats it, rant over. now for some more alcohol. and yes, ive been drinking since 8:10am.
[insert sympathy here]
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mydogfarted:
I had to do that with one of my close friends about 6 years ago. While we've reconciled our friendship, he still doesn't quite grasp why it happened.
weaselqueen:
Lol, Jehovah's Witnesses...I dated one once...