Gym & Stuff - Age - Girl - Cheating
Gym & Stuff
Friday was back. I threw my back out last year so for the first time in a year I did deads. I kept it light - 3X5@315. The first set went up easy but I felt sure my back was gonna pop on me, then it got better toward the end of the set. I felt it, but I think my back is healed.
Here's my Friday night sushi:
Saturday I was on escort duty at a Young Marines Halloween party. I was gonna go as a fat ugly redneck, but all my nice shirts were in the laundry.
Age
I spend a pathetic amount of time sizing people up and then trying to find out their ages. Once I do and invariably discover they are my age or younger I then spend way too much time obsessing over "holy crap, I don't look THAT bad, do I"?
Girl
Sassie has this awesome MR set out right now: Baltimore Bistro. She's already an SG but it seems her set still needs some love. I don't know why - Sassie is the shit, I know it, it's pretty clear she knows it, and so should everyone else. She seems to be this awesome hot skateboard model wild X-games type girl who has more cool in her pinkie than I could ever stuff in my entire 250 pound frame. And she wants to get naked for us. I think we'd better let her before she runs off in a private jet with Andy Macdonald and Travis Pastrana and tells us we can kiss her ass.
Cheating
Every woman I've ever been with has cheated on me. Other than one girlfriend, I have never cheated. Not asking for sympathy - it's just a statement of fact. I'll even take my lumps for my part in it - for some of them. I tend to be a bit monomaniacal, which a girl can like when all that attention is focused on her, but maybe can get a bit lonely when the laser shifts elsewhere. Does not excuse the behavior, but helps to understand it.
Anyway this circumstance in my life has, not too surprisingly, given me some time to ponder the subject. I have concluded that it is actually harder for women to not cheat than it is for men. This is, at least for men, often hard to understand. Ladies, our minds tend to be a non stop constant stream of sexual and sexually related thoughts, and so it seems to us that we are constantly fighting temptation.
The simple fact is that, even today, it is primarily the women who are pursued and the guy who pursues. So for men to not cheat, in spite of what may be going on in our heads, we mostly need to just do nothing. Women on the other hand have to take an active role in repelling advances - in effect, if they do nothing, they do not repel the advance, they cheat.
If women came after me the way guys go after women I'd be one cheating motherfucker.
That is, of course, when I wasn't too busy fishing.
Gym & Stuff
Friday was back. I threw my back out last year so for the first time in a year I did deads. I kept it light - 3X5@315. The first set went up easy but I felt sure my back was gonna pop on me, then it got better toward the end of the set. I felt it, but I think my back is healed.
Here's my Friday night sushi:
Saturday I was on escort duty at a Young Marines Halloween party. I was gonna go as a fat ugly redneck, but all my nice shirts were in the laundry.
Age
I spend a pathetic amount of time sizing people up and then trying to find out their ages. Once I do and invariably discover they are my age or younger I then spend way too much time obsessing over "holy crap, I don't look THAT bad, do I"?
Girl
Sassie has this awesome MR set out right now: Baltimore Bistro. She's already an SG but it seems her set still needs some love. I don't know why - Sassie is the shit, I know it, it's pretty clear she knows it, and so should everyone else. She seems to be this awesome hot skateboard model wild X-games type girl who has more cool in her pinkie than I could ever stuff in my entire 250 pound frame. And she wants to get naked for us. I think we'd better let her before she runs off in a private jet with Andy Macdonald and Travis Pastrana and tells us we can kiss her ass.
Cheating
Every woman I've ever been with has cheated on me. Other than one girlfriend, I have never cheated. Not asking for sympathy - it's just a statement of fact. I'll even take my lumps for my part in it - for some of them. I tend to be a bit monomaniacal, which a girl can like when all that attention is focused on her, but maybe can get a bit lonely when the laser shifts elsewhere. Does not excuse the behavior, but helps to understand it.
Anyway this circumstance in my life has, not too surprisingly, given me some time to ponder the subject. I have concluded that it is actually harder for women to not cheat than it is for men. This is, at least for men, often hard to understand. Ladies, our minds tend to be a non stop constant stream of sexual and sexually related thoughts, and so it seems to us that we are constantly fighting temptation.
The simple fact is that, even today, it is primarily the women who are pursued and the guy who pursues. So for men to not cheat, in spite of what may be going on in our heads, we mostly need to just do nothing. Women on the other hand have to take an active role in repelling advances - in effect, if they do nothing, they do not repel the advance, they cheat.
If women came after me the way guys go after women I'd be one cheating motherfucker.
That is, of course, when I wasn't too busy fishing.
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I just hate being with out my pod casts and music when i am at work at night... it sucks being in silence for 10 hours at a time...