Help. 
Okay am I reading this wrong? My very good friend Angie and I have basically not seen each other and barely spoken in the last 4 weeks since I started dating Natalie.
Angie introduced me to Natalie at her restuarant then "changed her mind" and said she did not want me to date someone that worked there.. that she wanted me to just come to see her and that she was a little jealous.
The next time I came down Angie and I got in a argument when she basically told me not to come there.
Natalie has since quit and we are dating quite nicely thank you very much.
Angie and I have not spoken on the phone at all, had a couple emails and a couple text messages and that is it. I have asked via email a couple times when we are going to get together but she basically said she was busy or did not respond.
Soooo... we had a email exchange the other day and then out of nowhere she puts in this paragraph. Am I reading it wrong??? I find it bitchy, snide, rude and her last sentence about hanging out makes it sound like a terrible burden.
I have not replied... she leaves back to Cali in 12 days and I am basically just going to let her leave without seeing her again. I am kind of pissed... she wasted this much of the Summer might as well let it go.
She wrote:
Miss Natalie came in the other day to get her last check and said the most ridiculous thing to me! She said something like, "I thought you haven't been hanging out with Sean because of me, and I hope your not mad at me.." something of that nature came out of her mouth, not sure exactly I wasn't really listening. I wanted to laugh at her, my god!!!!!
Anyways, yeah. I guess we will have to get together soon.
Okay am I reading this wrong? My very good friend Angie and I have basically not seen each other and barely spoken in the last 4 weeks since I started dating Natalie.
Angie introduced me to Natalie at her restuarant then "changed her mind" and said she did not want me to date someone that worked there.. that she wanted me to just come to see her and that she was a little jealous.
The next time I came down Angie and I got in a argument when she basically told me not to come there.
Natalie has since quit and we are dating quite nicely thank you very much.
Angie and I have not spoken on the phone at all, had a couple emails and a couple text messages and that is it. I have asked via email a couple times when we are going to get together but she basically said she was busy or did not respond.
Soooo... we had a email exchange the other day and then out of nowhere she puts in this paragraph. Am I reading it wrong??? I find it bitchy, snide, rude and her last sentence about hanging out makes it sound like a terrible burden.
I have not replied... she leaves back to Cali in 12 days and I am basically just going to let her leave without seeing her again. I am kind of pissed... she wasted this much of the Summer might as well let it go.
She wrote:
Miss Natalie came in the other day to get her last check and said the most ridiculous thing to me! She said something like, "I thought you haven't been hanging out with Sean because of me, and I hope your not mad at me.." something of that nature came out of her mouth, not sure exactly I wasn't really listening. I wanted to laugh at her, my god!!!!!
Anyways, yeah. I guess we will have to get together soon.
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my first impression was that she was not being bitchy snide or rude, but that she was trying to ACT more casual about it than she truly feels, and so was trying to make it OVERLY clear that it doesn't bother her (when obviously it does).
with that last sentence, it just seems she's trying to make it seem like it's ok if you get together, and it's ok if you don't. no biggie - or so she wants you to think.
glad things are going well with the new girl