I know few will read this and I may post something similar in groups, so for you few who do read it I'd like your thoughts. smurf_ass recently posted a set I though was very artsy, gutsy, and besides minor photography gripes well done. Well, she caught shit for not being nude. I understand those who were nice about it; complimented her and told her to be SG she would need to be nude because it says so in the FAQs. That is still a very nice compliment, but some were rather nasty in their comments. I had a similar friend who did not show vag and one comment I remember did not give positive because she didn't show all her stuff. It was a well done photoshoot, she should not have to show vag if she chooses not to. Similar a recent discussion in one of the groups someone asked why there was less vag being shown, really? This is not a porn site, it is about art and the social aspect. This is not mainstream and should never be, this site is about us who do not fit certain norms. When I joined way back when (long discontinued account) it was called alternative. This means not fitting a norm, this is not porn, and if you want spreading vag or giving a girl shit because she does not remove all her clothes go elsewhere. Do not discourage the ladies who choose not to fit a norm, are not rail thin, or do not show every aspect of their body.
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boosterp:
My blog is not about debating the rules, I respect that. My blog is debating the rude comments she and others have received.
fox:
Agreed, I think who cares what she is doing in her sets. It's up to the staff and missy to pay for sets. If she doesn't want to get naked well thats her choice, we shouldn't throw her under the buss for it. If someone has a problem they should let the staff know. I am mean shit I have two sets in review for the past year now and I don't have any problems seeing this young beauty in her debut set clothed or not. It's inspiration and something different to look at and should give ideas to everyone else. If she wants to keep it on let her, that's the beauty of this site is all the different ladies we see and different styles and different levels of comfort. I let it all hang out but I am comfortable with that, some girls spread it wide open and some don't it's all up to them what they want to do and up to the moderators and staff to choose who gets paid and who doesn't, doesn't mean anyone who wants a shot shouldn't have one and it certainly doesn't me we have to say horrible mean things when the "new girl" is in town.