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I never said sexual repression had a place. I said marriage and chastity and other such ideas still have a aplace for those that wish to embrace them. My point is that the religious repressives are trying to foist their limited morality on everyone else This is wrong but at the same time it would be just as indefensible for liberals like us to attempt to force our morality on other people.
I'm not sure I'm articulating this very well but I hope the basic idea comes across.

Hehehe. I lost my virginity when I was 14. I love sex and don't get enough. I put myself on birth control, and my mother is always trying to get me to sleep with guys that she thinks are hot, so she can live vicariously through me. Unfortunately my mother thinks lots of ugly guys are attractive.

I only 'win' on this occasion. Unfortunately, when I go out and get drunk on my own money it cost's a fortune. There's no way that Jersey's tax-free lager can compete with your student pound-a-pint stuff (unless, in fact, you are paying full prices at the uni bar but you are such a lightweight drinker it really does only take 10 to get you pissed )

My job? I'm a stockbroker...

*dons a crash helmet and braces himself for anti-broker comments/jokes etc*

Which kinda begs the question: why did you move to Scotland? I mean, they all drink meths or Tenant's Super Strength don't they? And isn't everyone ginger? And they speak funny.

Scotland.......California.......Scotland......California

Yep, that's a difficult decision where to live, eh?

Sorry about that with your mum. I just stopped talking to my mother about anything important to me and we get along better this way. As for the dungeons and dragons ... welcome to the dark side. Some friends made me do it once or twice when we were quite stoned and it was kind of funny. Well my hippie is a terribly sweet half puerto rican girl just graduating from Berkeley but originally from Santa Cruz. I don't get to stay over any more because I'm got bitchy and moody twice and she's dated some nasty guys before so its started ringing alarm bells for her. There's a picture of her in my pics folder that I grabbed off the internet off some article about a scholarsip she won (she's a terribly clever hippy).

its sucks last girl I met (my pixie) was three/four months before I had to leave for a year to the states and I also started getting involved with my hippie at spring break and now I have to go back in six weeks.

well darling. i'm tired. and i just realized that the message i sent you never got posted up here. and it was good. and clever. and nice. and you would've wanted to fuck me even more. so i'll give you the summary of it and maybe we can just make out instead since i don't have the energy for the whole schpiel.

i forget the first part. but it was good!

chris smida. yeah buddy. chris does still work at tj's although he had a pretty awful accident a few months ago and has been out ever since. he and some bro friends of his were hammered one night and decided to jump two or three stories off of a roof. he broke his back. apparently it was the alcohol that saved him. go figure.

i went and saw ace when he was in the hospital but that was awhile ago. i heard he's made a full recovery and is schedule to be back at work in a week or two. but i'll be gone. so i'll just share something about smida with you.

he and i didn't like each other for a long time. i thought he was stupid (not that he isn't) and he thought i was lame (not that i'm not). so for quite some time we just never got along. we didn't argue or anything but we didn't chum around either. until....one day a bunch of us were in the break room talking about the best singers of the nineties and i said jeff buckley. you should've seen his face light up. long story short. we have a common passion for music and that's what brought us together. honestly, there aren't a ton of people i'd like to keep in touch with after i move but he's someone i think i'd like to know for, if anything, just a little bit longer. good guy when it comes down to it. i don't know about amazing in the sack although he must have to be...his girlfriend is pretty unbelievable.

wanna see my uhaul trailer??? we could build a fort in back. i'll warn you though...it's awfully dark back there. oh my!

Oh, it's one of those loopy Dhalgreny Finnegans Wakey things... (my end is my beginning and my beginning is)

In answer to a long ago question, I finally found out today that I've been doing Vinyasa Yoga for the last several months. They're not big on terminology there...

I don't think the Buff Club is an over twenty-one. I've never seen anything to suggest it. Probablly just the bitch at the door. What time did you arrive? The place fills up really early so you've got to be there when it opens. If you're not there early then they only let in regulars ie. their friends (of which i ain't one as i've been knocked back at quarter to twelve. Maybe that's it. Try again but earlier, that's my suggestion.

note: how come you receive so many more comments on your journal than i do mine? i wish i was a beautiful sexually realized 20 year old that masturbates all the time. oh wait...nevermind.

your hippie wishlist intrigues me. unfortunately, my agenda is a little less 'far out' or 'hip' than i'm sure you'd prefer. prepar yourself for my next few days...
thursday: get car from parasites on soquel, drive, MfA, drive, amoeba, drive, jenna, drive, uhaul, drive
friday: work, pack, dinner with friends
saturday: work, pack
sunday: pack, motorcycle ride with homies (?), living legends, drive to midwest....wanna come?

a dildo, eh? perhaps. but look at me...i'm a way bigger jerk than you ever are...probably...so am i like a butt plug or something? or a cock ring?

just a gut feeling.

actually, i'm the nicest guy i know, but i'm also the biggest ass. too bad you're not around for me to show you.

Your mum sounds waaaaaaaay cooler than mine (if not a little more freaky). Do you reckon she would want to adopt me? I wouldn't mind being on her mailing list of bizarre google search results. Plus, maybe she could bake me the occasional cake.

Uh oh, I think I can hear the scanner trying to creep up from behind.....

AAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHHH

Oh yes, the old pants issue. I know this only too well. Wet pants, "How much do you charge to dry clean pants?", and many other moments of mirth. I'm a pseudo Yank and came back to the UK a couple of years ago, along with my American vocab

You do appear to be quite a tinkly one. (In the starry night way, I hasten to add.)

The moon is something else tonight, hey? Just got back from a nighttime walk along the thames, which has me feeling much better. The river's salty tonight, and right by my house I found this hidden canal full of houseboats. Among other things.

I should get out more often, even if it's solo.

You'd have better luck lip-teasing a Scot or two... though I don't know that could be dangerous. Speaking of teasing though, weather in DC is being an incredible tease. I left for work and it was warm if breezy... my ride home was one long miserable wish that I had brought along a long-sleeved shirt.

I haven't kissed anyone in something like 1.5 years. I'd try to figure it out more precisely, but I'd probably get depressed in the process. Safe to say, my thoughts on relationships at this point are something like my thoughts about quantum gravity and the existence of a soul: purely theoretical.

Do you follow Morgan's journal? She often talks about open relationships and the like (thank her for pimping "The Ethical Slut"). There are also a few groups on the topic.

philosophy at UCB, im on exchange for a year. I get back in the middle of june when I'll probably live in edinburgh and work for the summer. Im usually at uni in St Andrews

i was born in glasgow though, in stepps

'dude, you're hot' :

75% of the internet is porn
20% is file sharing.

I don't believe in open realtionships. I think all relationships are open you can do whatever you want at any time, it really just comes down to whether or not your partner minds. Whether a relationship is called open or not, jealousy is always present. Clearly by now you can tell that my open relationship didn't work out. All that said, if i buped into you somewhere and you told me you where in an open relationship, then i obviously would condone them.

As for comments / blogs i would prefer people did comment in a more conversational way as opposed to the 'you hot' thing but it's easy for someone to say you hot just as a way to really say hi. I'm sure a lot of people would want to say "you're beautifull, i reallly like your..." but people always seem to shy away from saying the things that either make them sound like a) a staker b) geek romantic.

People are complicated, that's why is so hard to find one.