why is it that so many people in realationships say things like, I love you... I care about you... I need you, when they obviously don't mean it.
how can someone say in one breath that they love you, then say that a very significant part of you has to be changed, or compromised to make them happy.
am I the only one that feels like marriage, and other similar realationships are a form of slavery. why must people feel like they own another person... or have total control over that person in order to feel secure in a realationship?
if you fall in love with someone, you fall in love with them while they are completely themselves... free and without the restraints of traditional realationships. but once you start applying rules of conduct to a person... taking away their freedom to choose, then is that really the person you fell in love with, or is it your personal idea of what that person should be??
help me out. cause i really want to know.
