blulotus

so,
today couldn't have been a worse day.
so me and my husband and son were out eating with my mom sister aunt etc.. when my dad calls my mom and tells her to come home right after we eat cuz it's important.
to make a long story short he found cigarettes, condoms, birthcontrol pills and some angry journals in my 16 year old sisters bedroom. she shares it with my 19 year old brother (who was responsible for the condoms and cigarettes) anyway, she had to throw away all her clothes all her cds (her room is basically empty now) and she has to get homeschooled.(oh by the way she has a beat up punk sorta look) arggg!
oh and my brother who has no car no job and no where to go took all his stuff and left, because my dad doesn't like his style of clothes and doesn't want him to smoke.
jeez,why why?????
anyway i don't know what i should do if anything.
ok thats that i can't make there life or choices for them.