At what point is it time to give up on a relationship? I have been with my current gf for over 2 years now. We have had good times and trying times all the way through which I realize is typical of any relationship but yesterday I was at my wits end...
She had decided to go to the lake with her son and some guy friends while I slept because I am working 7 night shifts in a row. This quarantine thing is dragging on and everyone needs a break, I get it. But then she proceeds to get drunk and informs me she is staying the night in her guy friends camper... but assures me she has her son so its no big deal.
And this was where I drew the line... I left work, took her home, and told her we will talk when she is sober. She claims I dont trust her... usually when she accuses me of this there is always alcohol involved.
Is that fair for her to claim that considering the position she put me in? I mean sure she may have slept in his camper and not done anything... my point is I have never and would never put her in the same situation.
I rarely ever drink to the point where I am out of control of the situation I am in, especially if I know I have to drive with kids in the car.
And to back up when we started dating we both came out of relationships where we were cheated on... mine was a wife of 7 years, and hers was her fiance of 3 years...
I dont know anymore, she will wake up tomorrow and be a different person and I guess I need to dig deep and see if I want to continue to deal with this all.
